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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? CPA
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

A Follow-Up Booty Call

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I previously hooked-up with Steve a week earlier. He’s my roommates friend-with-benefits, 25, muscular, tan, jet black hair.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My BF lives a few hours away. It was around 11 pm and we’d finished texting. Steve sent me an IM. He was flirty and using his charm. He kept complimenting my butt. He sent a few memes of celebrity women in bikinis. One was titled “Epic Booty”. Most girls wouldn’t his game, but I did. He asked me to come over for sex, anal only. I teased a little before I agreed. I knew he lived close so I asked for his address. I put on loose dress, lipstick, & heels and started to leave. Jen was on her ipad on the couch and didn’t look at me but said, “Booty call with Steve?” I said, “Yes.” She told me to have fun.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got to his place and we got right to business. He had a bottle of lube in his shorts so it would be warm and I took off my dress and bent over the bed. He squirted almost half a bottle inside me then put some on his penis. We had sex until he finished in my butt. Then I left.

It was slightly after midnight when I got home and Jen was in bed. I gave her the details the next day.

I hooked up with Steve a few more times.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Jen told me the next day that Steve had been blowing her phone up with texts asking if she thought I would have sex with him again. She told him to ask me.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Jen. She enjoyed hearing the story.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I was in a relationship and cheating.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The entire experience.
Having a hot guy ask me to come over for sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think it’s OK to have sex with a good friend.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A good place to share stories.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!