What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Madrid , Spain
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Education
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sex positive
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A French Blonde
How long ago did this hookup happen? 14 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a petite , French blonde with a milk white pale complexion . She was rather serious and almost grumpy but a nice girl and rather honest and intelligent . She posted a notice in the university looking for a language exchange partner to practise her English with . I phoned her up and we agreed to meet . She was very much a straight talker and generally had a cynical / misanthropic attitude but she was nice and friendly enough . We used to one a week to chat .and we got reasonably well She had recently broken up with her boyfriend and told me that their relationship had left her sexually unsatisfied . Her English was not great and we soon lapsed into talking in French .
We must have met four or five times before finally one afternoon when I was about to leave her , she said ” If you want , next time we can fuck ” …..
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She did , she asked straight out . So we meet at a bar the following week , had a chat and we got back to my apartment .
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to my room and she was nervous , she told me that she really wanted to do it but didn’t know how to start. I decided to take charge, I moved in for the kiss and she started to unbutton my shirt. She was a great kisser with lots of tongue play. I love sucking, kissing, and licking a woman’s neck and I remember leaving her with plenty love bites on her neck ….
I slipped on a blues record and we got naked on my single bed and enjoyed lovely, varied, and prolonged foreplay. I loved the way she sucked dick, slow and cautiously. She had lovely medium sized tits with lovely pink nipples which complimented her white complexion and blonde hair. I loved licking and sucking her tits. Her pussy was very sensitive and she reacted strongly to my fingering. Her on top was nice, I could look up and see her take in every inch of my dick with a smile on her face as the pleasure mounted, taking her from behind was great too, she had a lovely round ass.
I am glad I satisfied her , she admitted that it was good for her to be with a man who didn’t just think of his own pleasure, she said that was the problem with her ex .
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I met someelse and concentrated on her and I had to explain to the other girl that we couldnt have sex anymore .
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To some male friends , they were happy for me .
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing .
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No , not all . It just reinforced my love of sex and gave me a happy memory .
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? French is a sexy language, it’s great to fuck while speaking French .
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex and wish I could get it more often, simple as that .
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Rather cool ! Makes me horny and I have a big curiosity about sex .
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