by Just A Girl
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, Alabama
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A Good Ride
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last summer
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a year younger than me and not the typical type of guy I went for. He was that shy, slightly chubby, social outcast type. I didn’t really know him well, but we’d gone to the same schools for years, so he wasn’t a total stranger I guess. Before the hookup I never really noticed him, he just wasn’t the type that high school girls tend to notice.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Things kind of got started off at my school’s summer dance. I’d been flirting with a bunch of the hot guys all night and a bunch of them and a lot of the girls I knew were all going to carpool to the lake after. I had to use the bathroom though and by the time I came back I realized I’d been left behind. Needless to say I was pretty pissed. I’d spent all night flirting, gotten all hot and horny intending to have sex with a hot guy at the lake, and then it wasn’t going to happen. Anyway, this kid was the last person left with a car, everyone else was waiting for rides. I asked him if he would take me home and he seemed kind of shocked that a girl was coming to him for help, but agreed. There was no planning involved and I instigated the whole thing. He didn’t really say anything during the drive, I think he was nervous. I was still super horny though and I just needed relief and didn’t care where I got it at that point. I told him to pull off the road into this field we were passing and at first he was confused, but he did it and I told him to park behind some trees so we couldn’t be seen from the road. Pretty sure he was supper confused at that point. I looked over at him and told him it was his lucky day and just started stripping right there in the passenger seat next to him. I ended up outside of the car to get my skirt and panties off and went around to his side of the car. It took some doing, but I got him to take his clothes off and I could tell he was super nervous.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He was already kind of hard to start off, but I had to give him a blowjob to get him the rest of the way there, likely because he was so nervous. I could tell it was his first. By the time he was fully erect I was the one who was shocked. This shy, sort of chubby kid had a bigger, nicer dick than any of the ‘hot guys’ I’d been with before. I was excited now and couldn’t wait to try him out. I did have a few condoms with me, but they were too small for him. At that point I didn’t care though. I was so horny I just had to have him. I was at least on the pill though. He sat in the driver seat of the car and I just rode him like crazy, he felt so big inside me, it was magnificent. I rubbed my clit the whole time and had an orgasm pretty quick. After I kept riding him until he came inside me. I was also pleasantly surprised how long he was able to last.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup things were pretty normal other than he seemed a lot more confident and social than before. I felt really good about it the next day, but I didn’t have any particular hopes or expectations for the future concerning him. We’ve stayed in touch and I’ve fucked him a good many more times after that day. He’s actually a really sweet guy and even after a year I still hookup with him regularly. He’s not so shy and nervous anymore and I’ve turned him into a confident lover and he loves getting me off.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, I was feeling lonely, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He had the biggest, nicest dick I’d ever seen or had, felt amazing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He wasn’t very interactive, just seemed kind of stunned and kept his hands on my hips the whole time.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I still think about casual sex the same way, but my perspective on people changed. Suddenly every shy, not so handsome looking guy became a possible diamond in the ruff. Before the hookup he was the kind of guy I wouldn’t have looked twice at, but afterwards his chubbiness suddenly wasn’t that unattractive. Guys can be attractive and desirable in different ways. In his case his looks at first glance weren’t much, but his dick, wow. I couldn’t get enough of his dick for several months. He also turned out to be so sweet and after gaining experience his ability as a lover has become impressive.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I think it changed both of us for the better, and to this day he’s also the only guy I let go bareback and drop his load inside me. There’s a trust there that doesn’t exist with anyone else for me. So it started off as a one-night stand, but we quickly developed into friends with benefits I guess. I’ve also noticed more recently that I’m becoming less interested in finding new guys to have sex with and spending a lot more time with him. I kind of find that interesting.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? A lot of people don’t seem to think of women as being as sexually charged as men, but I can tell you I’m horny a lot. I’ve never felt as if having sex at a young age was a bad thing, it always feels like something I need. As long as your responsible about it, I really don’t see the harm, and you learn a lot about yourself in the process. I’d like to see society become less oppressive of casual sex. It’s always going to happen, so stop trying to fight it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it paints an interesting picture of what is really going on out there and what the sexual desires and needs of real people are like.
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