by Henry

Gender: Male
Age: 20
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Canada
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A Handjob Isn’t Really Cheating

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Asian girl with a great body (let’s call her Celine). I met her while smoking pot with some friends a while ago and that ended up being our first time hooking up (just making out). A week later this happened…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One night I was at a college house party and had been drinking a fair amount. Being bored, I went into the bedroom (where all the bags were being kept), just to sit down and check my phone for a couple of minutes. A cute girl I met at the party comes in and suggests that we go downstairs for a joint. While smoking, she insists that she smoke through my mouth, and just like that we start making out. She grabs my bulge and starts jerking me off through my pants but after a while finds out that she has to leave because the last bus is departing. I drop her off at the bus-station, horny as hell and decide to stop by Celine’s dorm room. I’ve only met her once before but I go for it anyway. We share a couple of drinks and soon she grabs me and we start making out. Celine’s in a relationship as well, so we were both cheating.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We took each other’s clothes off. But because Celine and I are both in a relationship, we both unconsciously agreed that sex would feel too guilty. She begins jerking me off sensually and tells me how much bigger my cock is compared to her boyfriends. She was really, really good at it. Celine then moves down and starts sucking my cock. After a few minutes of her sucking faster and faster, I cum all over her face.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did, she didn’t.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. We didn’t discuss either.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I like the thrill of cheating.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, a couple of drinks and a smoke.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt slightly guilty after this, and don’t intend to cheat again. We never talked again afterwards, but it was a really good experience.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Slightly, because I cheated. That being said, I don’t feel too bad because I know that in her last relationship my girlfriend cheated on her ex multiple times.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Cumming all over a cute girl’s face while we were both in a relationship was an humongous turn-on. Guilt was the worst.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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