What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Manhattan Nyc
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Advertising
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Fun
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Low 40’s
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A Little Pick Me Up
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 25 about 5’6 dirty blond hair, nice b cup breast plus one beautiful shapely ass. Her name was Olivia and I messaged her online to meet up. Prior to this night, I was going through a little drought, no sex for a year. It was mainly due to too much focus on work and lack of effort. So it was time for a change & I decided to pay for sex to break the seal. Mind you I’ve never paid for sex and was nervous lol…So I arrive at the hotel in midtown, a bit shady, it added to my being nervous already. Olivia invited me in and I was relieved she match up to her online profile. I’m an ass man, so one of the main reasons I picked Olivia is for her perfectly shaped ass. So I was looking forward to hitting it from behind, again my first time paying someone for sex…so nerves kick in too much and couldn’t get it up. I was a little embarrassed and mad, but Olivia made me feel comfortable about it. So I took off the condom laid back on the bed and she proceeded on giving me hands down one of the best BJ’s of my life, swallowed every drop. After I was done I paid her then headed home refreshed. Point of my story is this experience motivated me to get back out there.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Online
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Amazing blow job, no sex.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt refreshed and motivated to get laid more
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? Paid for
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? Paid for
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one for awhile but I got drunk and told close buddy… He thought it was very funny. All good.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Got my Mojo back
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not hitting it from behind.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? If you need a pick me up…paying for it can work in a positive manner.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? To each its own
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool site
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