Current location: Midwest
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student/part time manager
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Gay/Lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Bottom, interested in older men usually
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A Long Awaited Fantasy
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s tall, has a hairy chest, with a great lean body. Dark, short hair. Incredible jaw line that makes his deep, dark green eyes pierce into your soul.
I didn’t know him all that well. I just knew who he was. An old alumni of the org I’m in.
I was attracted to them before the hookup. I wasn’t sure if he was into guys though. So I never expressed any of my feelings directly to him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hooked up in the showers after a workout. We were chatting on Facebook, just talking about the org we’re part of. I mentioned how I had a dream last night. He asked me about it. I told all but the last part, which was a fantasy about having sex with him in the locker room. He wouldn’t give up and kept asking, so I told him more and more. He asked me if I wanted it to come true. I told him yes.
There was planning involved. We worked out early in the morning. We snuck into a shower stall together. I’ve never had sex in public like that. It was extremely hot. I brought up the dream, but he pushed me to hookup at the gym.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first thing we did was strip out of our swimsuits. He told me he was big, but I never thought that big. I was shocked to be honest.
Next thing I knew he was grabbing soap and started washing himself. I just watched, he looked at me as he rubbed his chest. He got more soap and turned me around. This is when I realized he was following the exact fantasy I told him the night before. He started washing my back, when he got to my ass, he pressed into me, and whispered, just as I told him he did in my fantasy, “want me to keep going?”
I said yes and kissed me from behind. He turned me around and pushed me against the wall. Kissed him back, and got on my knees, when I started blowing him.
He later fingered me while jacking me off and making out with me.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I came when he fingered me. He came in my mouth.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None, and no
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted something new, fresh. I wanted to feel happy again. I was tired of fighting in my relationship and I needed an escape.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? no
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? afterwards we finished showering and went home. We kept texting and eventually hooked up again.
I had mixed feelings on it. I’m glad it happened because it was exactly what I needed. I felt bad though because of my boyfriend.
I hope to stay friends with him. We’re done hooking up, but still talk.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes. Consent is sexy 😉
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I’m glad it happened. It has both good and bad things about it, but I would do it again.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the best thing is that he really cares about you. He made me feel like i was the most important person to him in that moment.
The worst is that I was nervous the entire time about being caught at the gym.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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