What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Copenhagen
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Commercial Director
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A night in Paris
How long ago did this hookup happen? 14 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? For business in Paris, arrived early afternoon and no meeting until the next morning. I dropped off my stuff in my hotel and went for a walk in a nearby park. A slightly voluptuous woman, I estimated slightly older than me was talking photos. She had curly ginger hair, wore tight shortish blue skirt and a t-shirt showing her impressive figure not hiding her not to miss cleavage. I walked passed our eyes locked tension sparked immediately. I sat down at the next bench, from where I looked her taking photos of the flowers. We had eye contact a few more times, after which she walked up to me and sat down next to me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I introduced myself and she told me she was traveling Europe with two friends but after a few weeks got fed up with them. She was from New Mexico teaching there and traveled during the summer. I put my arm on her shoulder and suggested to continue our walk together. We scrolled through Paris sharing details about our life. She was seeing a married man at home, she was not happy with that but stayed with him for the occasional good sex. I told her I struggled with my long term university relation, after which she suggested we could both use some attention. She grabbed my butt and looked a time me super seductive. I kissed her cheek then neck and suggested to go for dinner. During dinner, the wine enabled the topic to move to sex. She told me how much she liked giving head, that she loved her pussy firmly massaged and doggy style fucked. In a less sexual relation for a long time, I could not believe what I heard. She pulled her t-shirt slightly down showing a lot more of her cleavage, we kissed over the table and then she whispered: I want to come over these, while she pushed up her breast with her hands.
We agreed we needed condoms, both horny as hell we tried to find a pharmacy, but without luck. She suggested to the hotel where she stayed with her friends to pick up condoms she had. 20 minutes later we were in a taxi to my hotel. We had been kissing and touching for almost an hour and both could hardly resist each other anymore. She pulled down her t-shirt and be showing her cup D breasts with large hard pinkish nipples. She bent forward, unzipped my pants and took my hard cock in her mouth.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In the hotel, we got naked in minutes and I was pleased to see she was also ginger down under. I really wanted to go down on her, but she pushed me on the bed and continued what she started in the taxi. I was super horny, but what she did to me then was mind blowing. She took my cock far in her mouth but managed to spin her around it, that I never felt before she massaged my balls and when she touched my anus, I warned her I was about to explode. Instead of pulling back, what I was used to, she continued and pushed me over the edge. With a big load I came in her mouth, she kept my cock in her mouth looked up and winked as she came up let my cum drip out of her mouth on her breasts. She smiled and said, I wanted your cum on my breasts. With her finger, she took the cum off her breasts back into her mouth.
She briefly cuddled up next to me and started to grind against my leg. After a while, I pushed her on her back to finally ate her out. I was too gentle apparently. After a while she whispered, remember I like it rough. I became firmer, but she wanted more she stood up put one leg on the bed and started fingering with two fingers deep insight her, she was loud and moaned, watch out, which I did not understand until she squirted half over my face. This was all new to me, I could not believe what I got into.
After a brief recovery, we started all over again with a blowjob, after which I took a condom and we had sex in all positions I knew and more. Doggystyle pushed me over the edge this time after which I went down on her again this time rough as I now knew she likes She was almost screaming when my fingers massaged her g-spot, it took her finger joining in on her clit to make her come again squirting even more than the first time. We continued all night and fell asleep when it was already light.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My phone alarm woke me up, I had a meeting that morning. She felt my morning erection against her bum. She smiled, that. Is why I like my men young. She went under the sheet and gave me one more of her amazing blow jobs. I had a shower and while getting dressed she asked me if she could take a picture o me to remember the night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She flew back to the States , so it was a one timer.
(And after all this time I forgot her name)
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This was a door opener, shortly after broke up with my then girlfriend.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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