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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Oklahoma
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Middle School Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A One-Night Stand With A Pilot

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was Thursday night and I was in Oklahoma City for training with some co-workers from my school district. After dinner, we came back to the hotel and sat at the hotel bar to chat. All the other girls left for their rooms around 6:30pm to prepare for the 2 hour drive home the next day. It was early so I stayed to finish my glass of wine and text my husband. Around 7pm a van unloaded a group of women and men that worked for an airline. They were all dressed in their uniforms as they checked in. Three of the guys went to the bar for a drink and one of them made eye contact and winked at me. I blushed. He was wearing a blue uniform, tall, brown eyes and brown hair. I would guess he was 10 to 15 years older.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He got his drink and asked to sit at my table. I noticed him winking at his friends so I knew I was about to get ‘hit on’ as they watched. I was out of town and I thought some innocent flirting would be fun. I got the standard ‘pick up’ lines but I didn’t shut the door. Soon after his friends finished their drinks, they left and it was just us and a few other random people at the bar. He invited me to come back to his room for a drink. I winked said we can drink here unless you have other intensions. He was polite when he asked me have sex. I was a little shocked but also flattered with his forwardness. There was a brief pause and he knew I was thinking about it so he asked again. “So? What’s your answer? Want to have some fun while you’re away from home? No one will ever know or find out.” I told him I’ve never cheated but I am interested. He said, “It’s this simple. We go to my room and have sex. Then we go our separate ways.” I held out my hand and we left.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were inside his room and began to kiss as we removed our clothes. I could tell he spent a lot of time working out. He was very fit. Having his hands all over my body while we undressed had me excited. We moved to the bed and he started out on top. I was so horny, it was easy for him to enter me. I loved his motion and rhythm. He was able to give me an orgasm quickly. It took him much longer but I didn’t mind. After he finished, we spoke a little as I got dressed and left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to my room, took a shower, and went to bed. I was having breakfast the next morning and I seen him leaving with his co-workers. Everyone was in uniform. He noticed me and waved. I have a feeling he was bragging to his friends.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A very good friend. She thought it was a good experience and wished she could be brave to try it sometime.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being secretive and having sex with a random guy.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cheating. I went through a period of feeling bad and I almost confessed but my friend talked me out of it. She convinced me that what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Before I would have not agreed to having casual sex. Now, that I’ve had the experience, I would be open to it again if the circumstances were similar. The sex was good and it was nice to having sex with someone different. I think it helped my random hook-up was with an experienced partner.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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