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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Civil engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 01
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 00

A PLANNED MFM THREESOME

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year approx

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Me and my girlfriend, now about 5 years into the relationship, finally decided to try MFM threesome. She is 5’4”, fair with an attractive figure one would love to stare at. We had no experience in open relationship nor had tried before this incident.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She knew this guy, ram (not real name) since her school days. He was one of few friends whom she was in contact casually. The planning was mutual. It involved both of us. Then we both spoke to ram about it and he was easy to convince.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met at our apartment, had lunch. It took time for me to make ram comfortable. My GF was super comfortable though.  She changed her dress, got into a sexy top, and I guided her to bed. Then we both started kissing her and sucking on her breasts. And the roller coaster ride started with us both fucking her vagina and mouth. We hardly talked during sex. She mentioned moaning louder about how good ram is at fucking. And he had a huge cock. She also praised me for foreplay which we did for almost 30min before intercourse. Sex lasted for about 2 hours and then later for about 3 hours into the night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Next day we both discussed for hours about it. I enjoyed watching her getting fucked by two cocks. We didn’t try anal sex during the threesome with a mutual understanding about the trouble it brings. For her, the threesome was just an okay situation. She didn’t bond with him too much since he was more into sucking breasts and intercourse and not really into cuddling, kissing and all. Hopefully, we might find him doing better next time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Didn’t find an open-minded person to share this event, nor will I find one. It’s India. I think that explains everything

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best part was watching her getting fucked and her kissing us both by turning her head. Watching her hold both of our cocks and sucking it to the depth. Watching her scream in pleasure and asking for more. And then watching her taking our cum all over her breasts.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? ram was kind of silent guy. Less into talks. And it made it awkward asking her to do things. He kept doing one thing for too long until we guided him to do something else. He was less into foreplay.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I now feel more confident about having casual sex with obvious consent with the partners. My partner too is interested to have this event again. With obvious changes in who we choose to join.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Threesome is enjoyable if all partners would have sex mutually before. I mean in my case, if ram and my GF had sex with each other one-on-one before, I think the threesome might have been more enjoyable. We ended up having awkward moments here and there.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? The role it played in my life is very significant. Now we both share our deeper fantasies and how to achieve it. It made us both fall in love more and more. Society is a hurdle that we overcame.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great platform especially for people like us who are into open relationship and want to reach others, who do want to try it and are surfing the internet to find if they are okay with exploring new things in sex.

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