by ColoradoBoi

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A Sweaty Hookup The Night Before Her Flight

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a friend of a friend: Asian American, just barely over 5′, with a regular build. Her work was relocating her to China, and I met her the weekend before she was due to leave the country at bar in Los Angeles. I wasn’t particularly attracted to her, but it didn’t take me long to realize that she was attracted to me. We had just met, but she wouldn’t stop talking to me and asking me questions about my life. We ended up going to a few other bars through the course of the night, and she followed me to each one. At some point in the night we started talking about a restaurant that I recommended highly, and she expressed interest in going there with me before she left. So the following Tuesday, we met at the restaurant, had a delicious meal and some wine. I invited her back to my place and she happily said yes

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Once we were back at my place, we popped open a bottle of wine, and proceeded to finish it between the two of us – she was a bigger drinker than I was, so she was a little more drunk than I was at the time. I then informed her that I didn’t want her driving back home like that, so she was welcome to spend the night. She changed out of her dress into a night shirt I gave her, and then climbed into my bed. I freshened up and then got in after her. After some small talk, she made the first move: she quickly leaned in over me and we started making out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started out sitting up in my bed, and I took off her shirt and fondled her breasts a bit while we continued to make out. At the point where both our shirts were off, she lay me down and yanked down my boxer shorts and proceeded to give me an aggressive blow job. There was just one problem: I was slightly drunk, and still wasn’t entirely physically attracted to her, so I was still not completely erect while she was performing oral on me. We switched positions and I went down on her for a while. It seemed like she hadn’t trimmed her pubic hair in a while, but I didn’t particularly mind. However, it was unfortunately very hot in my bedroom (I didn’t have air conditioning), and she didn’t taste particularly pleasant down there, so after a couple of minutes I climbed up from between her legs and started to fuck her missionary style.

Once I started penetrating her, I was able to get fully erect. She was also incredibly wet, and with each thrust, the sloshing sound of my penis inside her vagina got louder and all the more erotic. At one point I lifted her legs up to my shoulders, leaned back, and proceeded to fuck her hard and fast, uninterrupted for about a minute. The whole while I could feel the sheets below our genitals getting wetter from her vaginal discharge.

By the time I started slowing it down again, we were both sweating like a couple of dogs. She then got up, put me on my back, told me she was going to “finish me off”, and started performing oral on me while I still had a condom on. About a minute in, she decided that the condom didn’t taste particularly good, so she pulled it off and continued to perform oral on my bare penis. She kept working my shaft harder and harder until I finally climaxed, and came in her mouth. It was the first time I had finished in a girl’s mouth, and she kept her lips fastened on my member the whole time I was pumping cum into her mouth. Once I had finished, she got up and went to the bathroom to spit.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She spent the night at my place, and the next day I dropped her off at her apartment. I went into work with almost no sleep and the rest of my work day was a little miserable. However, I felt better about the hookup after the fact than I did just before it started. It was possibly one of the best blow jobs I ever had, and I lasted far longer than I usually did in bed.

She flew out that evening, but we kept in touch briefly afterwards. I got the impression that she really wanted to have a long distance relationship, but it was not something I could emotionally commit to at the time.

I’ve seen her twice since the hookup, and she’s now engaged to a great guy, so I’m happy for her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never divulged the details, but our common friend knew that we hooked up. It was a pretty tame reaction on my common friend’s part – she said “Good for you, spare me the details!”

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How wet I made her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was a little unpleasant to taste when I went down on her.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Didn’t change it much.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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