by Jinx

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Black
Current location: NC
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Third Times the Charm

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Alabama (nickname) was this cute white guy I met off of a dating app. He’s blonde and has blue eyes, pretty fit. We had hooked up twice before and we both have no expectations for anything more as we just enjoy sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As usual he just sends a text asking if I’m available as he only lives about 10 minutes away. He picks me up and we drive to his place and quietly tiptoe to his room since his roommate was home asleep.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We keep the lights off but this time he had some sort of rock music playing low in the background. We start making out heavily on his bed, me on top and this goes on for a couple of minutes before he takes off my bra and sucks on my nipples which didn’t feel as good because he goes so soft but whatever. Afterwards we strip and this time he gets on top and we do it in missionary the whole time (about 10 minutes) it was SO good. Missionary is my favorite position and he was just the right amount of rough I scratched up his back pretty good and we made out some while doing it.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t he did

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I’m on birth control but we still used a condom, we’re both clean

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He’s conveniently close and we vibe well and because sex

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards we’d usually get dressed and he’d take me home but this time we spent a good hour just talking and laying in bed it was nice. After that he dropped me off and that was that. I have no special feelings for him and I’m sure it’s the same.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend knows and thinks it’s fine so do my siblings

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope it was fun

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best was the sex and the semi roughness, there was nothing bad about it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? We knew our little hookups would be short as he’s out of school and works a lot and I will be starting back college very soon but it was fun while it lasted!

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