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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Houston
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Medical professional
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A Threesome Among Friends

How long ago did this hookup happen? 28 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The sex was with 2 guys I knew when I was in college. One lived there (Kenny) and we had sex before. The other (Johnny) was there visiting his friends. They were both really cute and I had thought about being with both of them, but especially the guy who lived there that I had already been with. Johnny was innocent and sweet. Kenny was smooth and sexy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had been out at the club (this was the 80s), and we went back to Kenny’s house to hang out. We were drinking beer and hanging out. I went to the bathroom, and when I came out, Kenny was there and started kissing me. Then, I felt Johnny come up behind me. He was pressed against me, rubbing my tits, kissing my neck.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into the bedroom, and I was kissing both of them, while we started taking off our clothes. I sat on the edge of the bed and went back and forth, sucking one cock and then the other. Johnny laid down on his back, and I got on top with Kenny behind me. I fucked Johnny first while Kenny rubbed my tits and clit and made me cum. Johnny came pretty fast. Then, I bent over, and Kenny fucked me really good with his big cock. After Kenny came, we collapsed on top of poor Johnny, and I kissed him.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day, I felt so dirty but wanted to do it again. A few weeks later, Johnny and Kenny’s roommate, Daryl, showed up at my house late at night. I knew it was a total booty call, but I didn’t care. I was completely sober and fucked both of them, but don’t remember the details, except that we broke my bed and laughed a lot. My roommate saw them both leaving in the morning, but we never mentioned it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was one of the best sexual experiences I’ve ever had. I loved being with two guys at once. I felt so hot and free. We loved it!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I am divorced now. When I was married, it made me a little sad to think that I would never have the opportunity to have sex with two guys again. I sometimes fantasized about meeting up with those guys and having another threesome.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would love for it to happen again. Both of those guys are married now, and I don’t know how to find regular guys that I could have a threesome with. It’s not a freaky thing. It’s just a thing. Hot and nice.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have had two threesomes with those three guys. It was great, but it was a long time ago, and I wish it could happen again. I am sure that most people would think a woman who wants to be with two guys at the same time is a whore, but it just felt really natural and nice. A woman is ready to go before a guy is, so why not have two guys. The first experience I had was so good and intimate. It wasn’t nasty sex, just nice sex. I think it was because the guys were already friends and friends with me, so they were comfortable with each other and apparently, had discussed being with me while I was in the bathroom.

One time in New Orleans in the 1990s, I was in a hotel with some people after a night of partying. This poor guy went down on me forever, but I was too drunk to cum. I slept a while, and when I woke up later, my friend’s sorority sister who was in the bed next to me with some hot guy was talking about asking me to join them. I wanted to, but I was completely wiped out. I have always regretted it. I would love to know what it’s like to make another woman cum. That being said though, I have no interest in having a relationship with a woman.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great. I love telling my story and the idea that someone could benefit from it. I am also hoping that somehow it will lead me to two guys who are interested in a good time and some nice, gentle, intimate sex.

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