What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A Tinder Pounding
How long ago did this hookup happen? Month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him using Tinder and the profile said he was 40.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’m on a band scholarship and started college this summer. I’m a boring person and don’t have an outgoing personality. I have a boyfriend back home and we’ve only had sex a few times. I share an apartment with 3 girls and they talked me into joining Tinder to experience a random. They do it often and encouraged me to try it. It took a lot of convincing, but I finally gave it a try. I was very nervous the first time, but had fun. The guy was hot, but I didn’t feel comfortable having sex with him. He acted disappointed so I ended up giving him head.
A week later, we were hanging out & smoking pot. Mel took our phones, dropped them in her purse & told us to pull one out. Jen got mine, I got C’s, & Mel got Amy’s. Mel told us to open Tinder and find a match for that the person. It should be someone you’d hook-up with. We started searching and messaging.
I found C a cute guy age 25 and after a few messages, I gave her phone back. Jen had been busy sexting, gave me my phone, mid reply. The guy asked ‘DTF’? Jen had replied ‘yes, rent due this week’. I took over messaging and his hotel info popped up and said he’d be at the hotel bar waiting. We messaged more and his intentions were clear. I’d meet him for sex. I opened Tinder to look at his profile. I didn’t know changing preferences was an option but Jen changed mine to 35 and up. The only guy I’d been with was my bf and he’s 19. Jen insisted I give it a try and have fun. I was relaxed from the pot and the sexting had me horny. I agreed. After all, it’s just sex.
I applied fresh make-up & put on a cute dress. I was getting nervous so I took a few hits on a joint to calm down then called an Uber for the 6 min ride.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He’s tall, muscular, attractive, polite, and looked older than 40. He told me I looked more beautiful in person. I could feel myself getting wet as we went to his room. He removed his shirt and took off his jeans and his cock was hard, thick, and long, with a huge mushroom head. I grabbed it with both hands and started sucking. He wanted to give me oral so we did 69 for a long time. It was hard to concentrate on his cock because his tongue felt so good. We were ready, so I straddled him. I was still feeling relaxed from the pot buzz so his cock went in easy. It felt good and made me cum as I rocked up and down. He squeezed my tits and it didn’t take long for me to have an orgasm. Then he got on top and started pounding.
He was still pounding when my buzz went away. I felt exhausted and hoped he’d finish soon. He flipped my body over for doggy, slammed his cock deep inside, then suddenly pulled out and stopped to tell me the condom broke and he needed a pee break. He peed for a long time. I asked if he was close. He said yes. I told him it was okay to continue raw, but not to cum in me. He re-positioned, grabbed my hips then continued doggy. It felt better without a condom. He was pounding hard, and I started cumming and had another orgasm. He kept going, but I started going dry so he added lube.
I was facing a clock and watched the minutes go by. I knew there was no chance I’d get off again and was waiting for him to finish. I kept switching from being on my knees to on my belly because my legs & ass were sore. I had thoughts of tapping out, but I wanted him to finish. He began to slow down and I felt his cock swell. He shot a couple of loads inside before pulling out then finished on my back.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I rinsed off in the shower longer than I wanted because my legs were sticky with lube and my back was covered with cum. I was draining a mixture of lube & cum because he’d come inside me more than I’d thought. I dried off and got dressed. He apologized for cumming inside even though I asked him not to. I told him no worries cause I’m on birth control. He said a few nice things handed me $ and said, “I hope this is helps with your rent.” Then it hit me. Jen’s comment about needing to pay rent. I’d just got paid to fuck this guy and he was very generous. It was a huge compliment and ego boost because in the shower I had thoughts of regret, but now I felt better about myself. I called an Uber and left.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, Everyone else was/is doing it
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommates. They do it all the time.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I got paid to have sex with a random guy while in a relationship. I felt bad, but my friends tell me I shouldn’t and encourage me to continue having random hook-ups.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup?
Meeting a random and having him pound it out of me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having sex with no condom. The next day, I got to thinking it could have turned out bad. My roommates suggest I get tested. I did and everything’s good. I won’t allow that to happen again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Having a random hook-up is fun and easy way to make $.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s easy to find a random hook-up on social media.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.
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