by A

Gender: Female
Age: 20
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: In a relationship
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Bisexual turned heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

A Week In Sexual Paradise

How long ago did this hookup happen? Almost 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Holiday fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? After finishing high school, a group of my friends and I went on a holiday break to Greece. I met him on the first night out; he was also English, also in Greece on holiday. That night he was with his friend: two tall handsome guys, a brunet and a blonde. I took notice of them but didn’t approach until they did so themselves – I was more interested in his friend but the conversation did not last long as the night was cut short by me having to take my friend home. I didn’t remember their names, didn’t know who they were, didn’t think I’d see them again.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The next night my friends and I went out again. As we walked into the club, there was him, the brunet I saw the night before, without his friend but trying to get his game on a beautiful blonde who seemed nice but was having none of his or anyone else’s charm. I approached him, joked about him not being able to get the girl he wanted- he smiled and said that she is unavailable and was not looking for a casual hook-up with him or anyone else. I smiled and said that I bet him a drink that it will take me exactly a minute for her to kiss me but of course I will have to do it without informing her of our bet. And i won so he had to get me a drink…but I am sure he didn’t mind as afterwards he insisted on paying for the rest of the drinks for the week that I was in Greece.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did it everywhere, every way and in almost every position: beach, sea, every room, including the balcony porch of the apartment that he was renting with his mates. I spent days and nights out with my friends but at the end of every night out, I met up and spent nights and mornings with him. It worked for both of us – it was casual, passionate and simple for once. We would talk about anything – from basic chit-chat about what each of us did back at home to intimate issues that we have never shared with anyone before.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t have an orgasm; he did.. but for me it did not matter, I was aroused enough without having to climax.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms – there was a decorative bowl filled with any size, colour, smell and brand of condoms you could ever possibly imagine. As I understood, his mates and him brought the collection over from home. Lame as they were!

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I never needed a reason: it was a matter of what I wanted and at that point that was exactly what I wanted – a passionate one-week stand.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No drugs. Alcohol, definitely. Not that it was needed to lower either of ours inhibitions. We did it sober as well – alcohol was not the reason behind this hook-up. But I can imagine it probably removed multiple possibilities of an awkward moment.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing happened. We liked each other but we both knew that when we both go back home, it would never work out. We led two completely different lives. I reminisce of how fun and exotic that experience was but I never regret not keeping in touch.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? All my friends who were on holiday with us knew about it – they all had their own attitude and opinion towards it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Fully consensual from both sides.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all. Would not have done anything differently.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hook-up was the confidence it gave me both in myself and in sex. The worst was, though as casual as this hookup was, realising how dependent i felt that week on him. Every morning that I left, I was happy but I kept feeling hungry for more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience?: Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience?: A little negative

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