by Stig Helmar
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Denmark
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? dentist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Accidental Dogging Experience
How long ago did this hookup happen? a week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I got into a weird situation with a woman and her husband. They performed what is called “dogging”. I had anoymous sex with the woman.
The woman was at least 50 years old, probably even older, approaching 60. She was not very pretty. She was skinny, small saggy breasts, shoulder long reddish hair, a wrinkly face. She was wearing make up, a lot around her eyes. Her teeth were really big, the front teeth slightly crooked with one of them having a part chipped off.
When I saw her she was naked apart from her tights. He pussy was bald.
I have never seen those people before.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I am a family man, I have two children in primary school age with my wife.
I was on one of my evening runs. I do jogging for exercise and to clear my mind. There is a forest near to our house, that is where I am running.
It was already dusk when I could hear the unmistakable sounds of sex. A couple must have been performing somewhere in the forest near me. Now this should be none of my business, but it was unexpected and aroused my curiosity. I had never experienced something like this. With a slightly bad conscience I found myself snooping around looking for the couple.
I found them. It was an older couple, both at least in their 50s, lying on a blanket behind a big tree, just a short distance away from the path I had been jogging on. They were fucking in missionary position. The man still had his shirt on, the woman was naked apart from her suspender tights. From the position they were in, only the woman had a chance of seeing me.
I had never witnessed a copulation other than my own in real life. It is quite an experience, much more intense than on the screen. I could smell the sweat, the juices, pheromones in the air. The woman was moaning loudly, the man was grunting as he was excercising his pelvis. I could not help myslef but keep on staring at them. Very embarrassing, I know.
The woman noticed me and waved at me to my utter surprise. I was perplexed and didn’t know what to do, just froze. The man rolled away from her and also waved at me, both motioning me to come closer. As I still stood there doing nothing, the woman spoke and told me to come to her if I wanted to get some love in.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went closer to them, the man stood up and made space for me. I approached the woman, took my shoes off and lied on the blanket with her.
I now realised that those people must be doing what is called “dogging”: Having sex in open air and inviting people to join in.
The woman asked me whether I had trouble finding them, which confused me. I told them I had just been jogging and saw them, could not keep my eyes away from the action. The couple giggled and said they thought I was the guy they had agreed to meet up with. But since that guy has not shown up, I might as well join in the fun.
I agreed without hesitation. Just from watching the two, I had a hard-on and wanted to fuck. Besides that, I have been married for a dozen years now and have not been with anyone else but my wife apart from a girlfriend I had when I was 18. It would be good to have the experience of sex with someone else.
The woman seemed to be very eager. The man was just grinning, his cock was not stiff anymore. I started to touch the woman, being shy about it. I had no desire to kiss her on the mouth, and was unsure how to handle that issue. It didn’t come to that, the woman seemed to be unconcerned and never tried to kiss me.
The woman pulled down my pants and discovered my erect penis. She immediately started slurping. Her blowjob felt excellent. She was totally into it, I am sure she enjoys doing that. She licked down my shaft and sucked on my balls, pulling them into her mouth. From the position we were in, I couldn’t stimulate her clitoris, just pat her head and play with her saggy tits. She pleasured me until I was absolutely rock hard.
The man just stood there at the tree with his penis out, grinning and literally giving me the thumbs up. His thumbs up sign made the situation somewhat comical.
The man handed me a condom and put it on. The woman rolled on her back, spread her legs and offered me her bald pussy, The man had not been wearing a condom and I was not sure whether he had ejaculated inside her, so I did not want to lick the pussy. I touched her and realised she was still moist from the sex she just had.
I simply went on top of the woman and pushed my penis in. That went easy because the woman was moist and her vagina was pretty wide. So I started fucking her missionary, even avoiding eye contact with the woman for the most part. She nevertheless seemed to enjoy my efforts a lot and moaned loudly. I found that very arousing and was encouraged to fuck harder. I looked at the woman’s face when I ejaculated inside her pussy. I played with her boobs a little and then rolled off. No kiss.
The woman didn’t seem to mind. She cleaned herself, offered me a tissue and after we got dressed we chatted a little bit. The woman laughed and talked to her husband about how he masturbated while I was fucking her. I hadn’t even seen that because i was looking the other way.
I soon excused myself because I had to return to my family. The couple still wanted to wait there for a while in case the man they had invited would still show up.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I just returned to my house and family, showered and didn’t say anything about the strange event. I don’t have any feelings of guilt towards my wife, because this sexual encounter was so brief and anonymous that i may as well just have masturbated.
I do feel a sort of pride that I had sex with a third woman in my life. I am happy I was given this opportunity because I have always felt that only two sexual partners in a lifetime is a lack of experience. I am glad that I was spontaneous enough to do it with that woman. It is not so important that the woman wasn’t particularly attractive. When I think about it, the only thing that mattered is that she is not my wife. Just another person, that all that mattered.
I will probably not bother to discuss this with my wife, she might just get upset and it would be a pointless argument then.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having another woman to have sex with. The blowjob.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? the woman didn’t look very nice and I felt bad about not kissing her. That made the sex incredibly anonymous, and certainly could have been felt as insulting to her. Fortunately, she did not seem to mind. I could not bring myself to kiss her.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Wow, sex can come easy and fast. That was very weird for me. Half an hour earlier I had no clue that I would have sex, half an hour later I was already back to my normal family life.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think I would like to have casual sex, but it is not possible with the family. Maybe one day I will discuss with my wife how she feels about casual sex. It would be great if she would agree to go to a swinger club with me.
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