What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Vancouver
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Bartender
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Hungry
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 26
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Ashley is a pretty good friend from high school. I wasn’t super close to her, but we had remained friendly for years. She is half-Indian, half-white. She has a very pretty face, long black hair, and a nice body. We never seriously hooked up, but we made out and I felt her up at some drunken high school party. It was when I first started doing stuff with girls and she let me take off her bra, so I’ve always remembered it. I’ve always been attracted to her physically.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At 1 am on a Tuesday night, I got a message from Ashley on Instagram. She sent me a selfie of herself naked in front of her bathroom mirror, holding her tits. It was very hot, but strange and unexpected, so of course a couple minutes later she says “OMG sorry I didn’t mean to send that to you!” I told her I didn’t mind, she looked hot and she could send me a pic like that any time she wanted to. She didn’t respond and I shrugged it off. The next day in the afternoon she sent me another pic – this one she was in a bikini, posing in front of the mirror (probably took it another time). She said, “that’s all you get.” I knew she knew I was bi, so I figured there was some possibility this was a legit flirt, and I sent her a sexy pic of me I had taken for someone else and said: “how about now?” A little while passed and she said: “You look really good.” I still wasn’t sure how into it she really was, but I thought I’d keep trying. I was at home, so I took my shirt off and posed on my bed, holding my arm around my tits. I sent her that without saying anything. She said “This is hot. Are you hitting on me?” I said “I thought you were hitting on me! But yes.” She told me she liked what I was doing. I kept it going, and told her I wanted her whenever she was ready. She said she was interested but hooking up with girls never did it for her, she loves dick too much. So… I did something kinda messed up, but I was so turned on by the thought of getting with her I didn’t care. I sent her a picture I took of me in my strap-on fucking my ex (no faces, just her pussy on screen). My ex definitely would not have have been okay with that, but there was no way to know really that it was her. A little while passed and Ashley said “omg is that you?” and I said yes and I would love to do the same to her. She said, “okay when do you want to do this?” We agreed she would come by the next afternoon.
I met her at the door of my place wearing really short shorts and a tank top. She was in a tight tank top and black tights so her tits and ass looked amazing. She was really smiley when she came in, very giddy, obviously excited by what was about to happen. I asked her if she wanted a drink and she said no, giving me her sexiest eyes. I walked up close to her (this was in my kitchen) and she wrapped her fingers around my waist. She said she thought she was done with girls but my pictures made her reconsider. I put my hands around her neck and we kissed, a little too softly for my liking at first but then she got more aggressive, biting me a little and rubbing her lips hard against mine.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was a lot more assertive than I expected. She got me out of my tank top and bra right there in the kitchen. As we kissed, she massaged my tits with one hand and grabbed my ass with the other. She was all over me and I was vibrating. I had both hands under her tights, on her ass. We were both gasping, trembling, shaking as we kissed, so I took her to the bedroom. She pushed me onto the bed and got on top of me, pulling off my shorts and starting to finger my soaking pussy. She was so good at it, I told her, and she told me I wasn’t her first. I told her I was about to cum and she got on her knees and started licking me, at first up and down my lips and then licking my clit while she finger fucked me. I came right away. She laughed and lied next to me (still fully clothed). I told her I didn’t expect that from her and she said she came looking at my photos and wanted to return the favor. We talked for a bit until my sex drive came back, and then all I could think about was getting her naked and fucking her. She lied on top of me and made out with me while I undressed her. We kissed for a long time, my hands just endlessly squeezing her ass. I got on top and started sucking on her perfect tits while I played with her clit, and when she was close to cumming, I asked her if she wanted me to fuck her now. She said yes. I grabbed my strap, got on top of her, and fucked her. As the seven-inch strap-on entered her tight pussy, she moaned and yelled. It was so sexy seeing her jaw hanging open and her tits twirl around as I fucked her missionary style. She went from assertive to totally submissive under me. When she came, her legs tightened around me and she yelled. I asked her if I could keep fucking her because I was close to coming again and she said I could. I started again, moving so the strap on massaged my clit perfectly. She held onto me and moaned while I fucked her, starting to go faster to make myself cum. Her moans got louder and I came listening to them. I slid out and tossed the strap-on to the side and we cuddled.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We passed out for a while, then she left. Later she texted me that it was the best fuck she’d had in months. I agreed of course. On Friday night she came over again, we fucked, she stayed over, then again in the morning. She told me she’s addicted to me. I’m starting to have feelings for her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody yet
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How unexpected it was.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Possibly having feelings for someone who might not return them
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, already loved it. I’m glad I can seduce “straight” girls.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? For a long time now I wanted to hook up with just about anyone I’m attracted to.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it!
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