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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

Accidental Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? A little over 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My husband Saul is about 5’9, with a slim build, brilliant blue eyes, glasses, and usually a reddish beard. He has a gorgeous man bun and a big dong. He’s the definition of a sexy geek, and he was 33 at the time of the hook up. We had been together for 6 years and married for 3.

Lena was a friend of ours who worked with my husband. We knew each other through a parenting group. I was instantly attracted to her the moment we met. She had pale red hair, and she was tall and shapely with beautiful breasts. She was a strong, confident woman in her late 30s.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Lena and her wife had opened their relationship, but my husband and I weren’t aware. I was always happy to help them out and we agreed to have Lena and the kids over for a sleepover. It turns out her wife was having a date at their house that evening – and Lena was grateful we’d saved them the hotel cost. After we eventually got all the children to sleep, we started drinking and smoking weed. Lena brought brownies too, as she didn’t know we smoked.

The talking was very flirtatious, and after she’d revealed about the real reason she’d needed to stay elsewhere, I definitely started to get turned on, wondering if there was any chance we could mess around that night. Saul and I had talked about it, but neither of us wanted it enough to go actively seeking. We were very happy and our children were young. Outside, Lena put her arms around me and I lolled my head onto her chest and she stroked my hair. It was very safe and comfortable.

When we came inside, we started talking dirtier, and more suggestively. We snuggled together on the sofa whilst Saul watched. Lena asked for our consent several times before eventually drawing me into deep kiss.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing, her tongue was pierced and that was a new experience. I started to touch her breasts through her low black dress and eventually got them out of her top (her dress ended up getting ripped, and we laughed about it). I started licking and playing with her nipples whilst Saul got out his fine cock (much to Lena’s pleasure) and touched himself while watching us.

Lena this told me to think about how good her tongue would feel on my clit and said she’d write the alphabet with her tongue on there. To say I was excited was an understatement. She asked Saul if they should sort me out and between them. Then they took off my leggings and pants. She started fingering me whilst I sucked my husband’s dick and she watched. She touched and admired his cock before going down to eat me out.

It was so late by now that I was exhausted, which was annoying as I really enjoyed it. It felt great, but the tiredness was a big issue for me. Saul and Lena played with my boobs, but it felt uncomfortable and I had to ask them to stop (I put this down to tiredness). Eventually Lena suggested Saul fuck me and he did. Having her watch was seriously awesome. I asked her to finger me whilst he fucked me and it felt amazing. I felt an orgasm build and when I did come I squirted for the first time.

She asked if we had any condoms for Saul to fuck her. I was exhausted, but still keen to watch that. We didn’t have any condoms though, so she declined the fuck.

If I could go back, I would go down on her pretty pussy so hard, but I was just exhausted and spent. They stayed up after me and smoked and drank a bit more, having sexy chats and discussing what had happened and maybe doing it again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It ended up that they didn’t work together for long, and she slowly drifted out of our lives. She lives pretty local though. Her wife was cool with it, but they both decided they’d rather keep sex out of the friendship, so we haven’t hooked up again.

Me and hubby had a great time and it definitely made us think about opening our relationship or wanting other similar experiences in the future.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends eventually, it’s a funny story and we don’t have many mutual friends. People that know just roll their eyes and say it sounds like something we would do.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being the centre of attention and having Lena explore my body. Her fantastic boobs. My orgasm and my husband showing off his equipment in front of another woman.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? How long it took to happen, and being ridiculously tired. Not getting to enjoy her pussy.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It certainly opened our eyes, and gave us a boost.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Group sex was something I thought I’d never have to actually getting that experience was awesome. Although it could’ve been better.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It plays an enjoyable part of my life for sure!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love reading and submitting. Got a few stories left to tell!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!