What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Palm Springs
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RN
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6
Adding A Third
How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met A on a dating site. I left my email for her and she contacted me. We talked for several weeks and finally set up a lunch date. When I first set eyes on A, I almost creamed my pants. She was petite, with large breasts, black hair, and a big smile. She was easy to talk to. We had lunch and the date was supposed to be over, but I wanted to spend more time with her and I let her know. We walked around some of the little shops close by then went to a local park. We talked and kissed. I was hoping to take her home, but she said she really had to go.
I had two other ladies that I was seeing sexually on a regular basis (3-4 times a week for each of them) so I had to fit A in. I called A and suggested I come and pick her up at her house. We planned on meeting after she got off work the next day.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I showed up at her house. She sat me down on the sofa and came back a few minutes later with a joint. We talked and toked.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We finished the joint and she climbed into my lap. We began making out. I cupped her breast and was able to free one breast from her bra so I could suck on her nipple. I was sucking her nipple and rubbing her as when she got up, took my hand, and led me to the bedroom. She quickly undressed and I did the same. I laid down next to her and groped her magnificent breasts. I began fingering her pussy and to my surprise she came almost immediately. I went down on her and started playing with her clit while I worked a finger on her g spot. She had a nice orgasm on my face. She took my cock in her hand and began to stroke and then took the head into her mouth sucking and licking. I mentioned in another story that I get super horny and cum much too soon when on weed. She hadn’t sucked my cock for 2 minutes before I shot into her waiting mouth. After I recovered, I apologized for my quick trigger. She said it was okay we would just need to get me up again. She took me back in her mouth playing with my balls as she paid wonderful attention to my cock. Once she got me hard, I laid her on her back, straddled her chest, and took her breasts sliding my cock between them, fucking her tits. She then rolled me off of her, straddled me, took my cock in hand, and pointed it to her pussy lips, and slid down on me as she moaned. I watched as my cock disappeared into her tight hole. She rode me for what seemed like forever as I enjoyed the feeling of her pussy working my cock. I felt her cum and that triggered me filling her up. We played, showered, dressed, and I went home
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I added A to my line up of ladies. She was almost an hour away so I was limited to once or twice a week with the other two getting me the rest of the time.
A and I had great times together. She provided me with my first mff and my first mmf threesome. She was open to doing anything and we did a lot of crazy things when together. Eventually, she told me she had found a boyfriend and she wanted it to just be him. I told her to let me know if that ever changed.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just the other people in the threesomes.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Made me look forward to more partners
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I did add one more lady to make a total of 4 that I was seeing regularly and another 7 that i would occasionally fit in.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Everyone should enjoy casual sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea.
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