What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Accounting Clerk
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 37
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Because we live in a small town and are fairly recognizable by name in the community, I will refer to my partner in this as L. L is a 21 year old woman. She is around 5’4″, perhaps a hair under that, with mid-back length slightly frizzy brown hair, with the barest hint of auburn streaks running for it. A small, slightly uptilted nose rests above medium sized lips that are usually covered in lip gloss. Her B-cup breasts generally push out against the tight tan button up shirts we have to wear for work, and her body fills her khaki pants just as well, her round ass sticking out past her belt. She is just a tad over the healthy weight for her body type, but still generally healthy and attractive. We’d actually met years before, the very first day of middle school in band class. We weren’t particularly friends until several years later in the last two years of high school, when our social circles began meeting up. At senior prom, her date ended up leaving her for his ex, and we ended up spending the rest of the night together in the hotel room her older sister had originally gotten for her and her date. We remained friends, but never became anything more in high school. We didn’t see each other again until we both started working together last summer.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The story begins in the last few minutes of our shared shift at the gatehouse we work in. A storm had been tearing through the county for the past few hours, and it was getting progressively worse, tearing trees down everywhere. The radio we use to monitor security traffic began beeping erratically, and dispatch announced that a tornado was confirmed in our locations. L and I, as well as our female coworker I will call R, crowded into our small bathroom to take cover. The wind got progressively worse, and the small wood building we were in began to shake roughly. The three of us got as low as possible, with myself on the bottom pushed as far into the corner as I could get, and L and R straddling my legs. L pushed herself up against my chest, her legs on either side of my waist with her crotch pushing down onto mine. R pushed herself against L’s back, and we sat like that for what felt like hours as the wind roared past. Eventually, the wind subsided, and the radio announced that the tornado had broken up. The tornado had passed within a mile of our location, but to the three of us in the building, it felt like it was right outside. The three of us were drenched in sweat and panting as the adrenaline that flooded our bodies from fear subsided. L looked up and kissed me, and I responded in kind. It was vaguely familiar, having her body against mine. She ground against me, and I got hard pretty fast. R stood up really fast and said that if we were going to fuck, she was going to run our reports and close up shop. L asked her if she was serious, and R responded that we could do what we wanted and left the bathroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After R closed the door, L and I stood up. L locked the door and reached up to pull me into another kiss. We both agreed that we’d have to be fast, she dropped down on her knees. She unbuckled my belt and pulled my pants and boxers to my ankles. She formed her lips into an O and pulled my hips forward, slipping the head of my cock into her wet mouth. She bobbed a few times, moving her tongue around and covering the majority of my length with her spit. She pulled off of my dick and stood up to unbutton her shirt, letting it hang open with her bra clad breasts on display. She told me to sit down on the toilet and began undoing her own pants. She slipped them and her panties down and took a minute to pull them off without removing her shoes. She shuffled over me, lining her slit up with the tip of my cock. I held my length steady with one hand and put the other on her hip to pull her down. Her lips spread apart as gravity forced her onto me. Wet heat enveloped me, and the pair of us moaned. Knowing we did not have a lot of time, L started a quick pace of rising and falling. We kissed again, and I rubbed her breasts with one hand and gripped her ass with the other. One of her arms wrapped around my neck, the hand running through my hair. Her other arm slipped between us, and she rubbed herself as we ground against each other. We kept a rough, fast pace going for several minutes before she gasped into my mouth and shivered. She broke our kiss and pressed her face into my neck as she orgasmed. I kept thrusting up into her body and didn’t take long to cum as well, releasing into her belly. We sat together for a while, my shaft softening and slipping out of her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we cleaned up as best we could, we exited the bathroom and signed the reports R had run for us. The three of us left and went our separate ways. I enjoyed the experience, and hope to have sex with L again in the future at a time and place where we will have more time to explore each other.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Our coworker was in the next room. She gave us the go ahead and later admitted to thinking it was hot to have us coupling mere feet from her.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was amazing being with L. again. The last time we were together we were bumbling teenagers, angry at the world and in it for revenge. The intensity of this meeting was so different, and made a real contrast and showed how we have both grown. The difference between the virgin girl I knew and the sexual woman she has become is amazing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The positions we could pull off in the bathroom were limited. As we were in a public place, it was also necessary for us to be quiet, which dampened the mood somewhat. The last time we had sex she was much more vocal, and it would have made the experience better.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It got me thinking about how different my sexual prowess is now than it was when I was a teenager. In high school, I really hadn’t gotten a handle on sex yet, mostly short, dirty sessions in the back of cars, hookups at house parties, or quickies in out of the way places in the high school. Now I have years more experience, with experienced partners rather than the virgins and limp fish of high school. I’d never really sat and thought about it, but the teenage quickies throughout high school were not really satisfying overall, just sating lust and achieving orgasm, no real substance. Not just romantically, but being able to connect with a partner, even as friends, make the experience much better.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex can be both a wonderful and terrible thing. It lets us relieve stress, and explore our sexuality. On the other hand, it has the potential to spread STIs and could turn dangerous quickly if participants are not careful. Casual sex has been a large part of my life starting in high school and has helped me come out of the shell I had trapped myself in by exposing me to people.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? The Casual Sex Project is a good idea to gather data on casual sex, and the reasons behind it, the dangers that may exist, and the benefits that it can have.
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