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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Medical doctor
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Above average libido
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

An Adventure in London City

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a petite brunette from the south of France. She was slender, had a pleasant tan, and a sweet scent. We met on a hookup app called PURE. I felt quite excited and slightly nervous.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I downloaded this app PURE after Googling for a hookup app for heterosexuals. I’m in this casual relationship with a girl at the moment in my hometown, but recently my interest in her has been fading while her enthusiasm about me appears to be ever growing. This has led my sexual interest to other women. I uploaded one of my more attractive pictures, where I was genuinely happy and confident while travelling in the mountains. I liked her picture which showed she was slender and brunette and mysterious, and apparently she liked mine as well. We started chatting via the app, which took several hours during the day, during which we got to know each other better. About 8 hours later it appeared she had made up her mind and wanted to see me that night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She opened the door and I introduced myself. We had a glass of red wine and chatted about some regular things, yet after a couple of minutes she’d had enough of the talking and sat herself on my lap and started ferociously kissing me. Soon I found my hands wandering over her breasts, legs, ass, followed by my lips and tongue. I laid her on the couch, undressed her completely and started pleasing her orally which led her to her first orgasm.

This continued for about 2.5 hours, during which we had quite elaborate and diverse sex, including doggy style, missionary, spooning, oral, 69, cowgirl, anal fingering, etc. At times we were intimate, kissing and caressing, at times we were rough, pulling her and slapping her body. All the time we were very passionate.

She came many times, yet I had a hard time because of the condom. At some point, however, she really turned me on by moving sexually and being very sensual, after which I fucked her doggy style and we came together.

I really wanted to stay at her place after all of this, yet she said she couldn’t sleep well with a “stranger” next to her and asked me to leave, which I did.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left the place. I felt great about the encounter, both about the sex and about her as a person. We chatted on Whatsapp the day after and exchanged contact info (Facebook etc). I like her as a person and am very happy to have met her. I’d love to see her again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend who I was visiting. He loved the story and was happy for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Tasting her glorious body.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to leave her house late at night, while being tired and emotionally attached to her.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Perhaps it made me feel like women are more open to casual sex than I thought before.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!