Current location: Louisiana, USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Retired Military Officer
Relationship status: Then Single, now Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? High Sex Drive, Love Women & Sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
After Frat Party Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? 35+ years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty Call
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This happened over 30 years ago when I was in college. I had noticed Danielle a few times around campus, I did not have any classes with her and did not know how she knew me. One night I think it was a Thursday I had returned from studying at the campus library. The Fraternity that I was a member of and living in was having a party with a Sorority down the street. I was not in the party mood as I was trying to improve my grades. With that said I stayed downstairs in the house to see who was there. Danielle had seen me and came over to talk. Danielle was 20 years old at the time with long wavy brunette hair. She was about 5’5” average build, not to skinny not too heavy. She was wearing a heavy gray sweater so it was hard to tell how big her breasts were. Thinking back I would say that she was cute, the girl next door type.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No real planning, I can’t recall what we talked about except that I asked her if she wanted to see my room and she said yes. We walked up to second floor and into my room. My roommate was out so we were alone. We sat down on a sofa talked a little and started kissing. She was a good kisser and I had not had sex since I got home from Christmas break so I was horny as hell. I asked her if she wanted to climb up into my loft bead and she agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we were on the bed we started kissing again and I reached up into her sweater and discovered that she had lovely breasts. I eventually unhooked her under-wire bra and started kissing and sucking on her lovely C-cup breasts with big aureoles. We both getting hot and heavy, I removed her sweater and my shirt but we both still had out pants on. We continued kissing as I pulled her into me so I could feel her tits on my chest. It was wonderful. I was so hard in my jeans that I unsnapped them to give me relief. I took her hand and brought it to the outside of my jeans so she could feel my hardness. She squeezed it a few times and then let go. I then tried to work my hand down the front of her corduroy jeans but she would not let me. I tried this several times while continuing to kiss her and her breasts.
After several failed frontal attacks, I tried the back. I was able to slip my hand into the back of her jeans and squeeze her buttocks. I eventually worked my hand down to slide my fingers into her very wet vagina. It was like pressing a button or flipping a switch, as soon as I slid my fingers inside of her she could not get her jeans off fast enough and neither could I. As soon as we both were naked I climbed on top of her and penetrated her in the missionary position. As soon as I entered her she wrapped her legs around me and pulled me deep inside of her. As I had not had sex in a while I knew that I would not last long as she was wonderfully wet and tight. I asked her if she was on protection, she said she was on the pill. A few strokes later I emptied a big load of my love juice deep inside of her. I rolled off of her and we cuddled and talked. I learned that she knew who I was, she had seen me around the campus and was trying to get me to notice her, I guess she was successful.
The great thing about being young is the short recovery time after about 15 minutes we were ready for round two. This time I wanted to be on the bottom so I could suck on her breasts as we fucked, she was happy to accommodate me. As soon as Danielle swung her leg over me, she grabbed my hard penis and slipped it back in her even more wet and sloppy pussy and sank all the way down my shaft. After a few strokes she reached back cupped my balls and pulled them into her each time she bottomed out, very nice. As this was round two I lasted much longer and did not orgasm until after she did. After the second time we talked some more and then went to sleep. The next morning we woke up and Danielle left.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? 1st round me yes her no. Second round both yes.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None except to ask her if she was using birth control, she said she was on the pill, that is what I was concerned about the most. This was before HIV/AIDS was even known to the general public.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was young, lonely and horny.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None for me. She may have had a couple of beers but was not drunk.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Unfortunately a few days after our coupling I came down with a very bad case of the flu and was sick for over two weeks. On top of that I was still coughing up junk for a few more weeks, it is the worst case of flu that I have had in my life. The only thing I knew was her name and the address of the Sorority that she lived in, so I was not able to contact her except to physically go to her Sorority house. This was way before cell phones and the Internet. By the time I got better, I felt weird trying to get a hold of her. I also had a girlfriend back home who was my steady sex partner when I was home, I didn’t want her to find out about Danielle. I only saw her a few more times in passing as our University was very large. Years later after we both graduated I looked her up, contacted her and yup we had sex again. At that time we both lived too far away to have a regular relationship. We stayed friends off and on and both ended up marrying others but we are Facebook Friends today.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was consensual.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? At that time a little because I had a steady thing at home. Looking back not at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the opportunity to have wonderful sex with a beautiful woman. I remember our short time together to this day over 35 years later. At this time I think that I only had 3 other women that I had sex with and I enjoyed that Danielle had some experience and knew a few moves that I had never experienced before.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? My only regret was to not try to contact her after I recovered from the flu, I think that we could have had a nice relationship while we both finished school.
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