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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Little kink
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 55
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 12

After Hours Fun

How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Pam was the sales manager of a local office our station group did business with. She was about 7 years older, funny, good looking, tall and leggy. Always looking professional in her business dress (a turn on for me. Always wondering what’s underneath). We were somewhat attracted to each other in some fashion. Always having lunch, after hours drinks and hanging out at events.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We decided to go to a new bar for drinks after work. Had a few drinks, and then felt Pam’s hand on my leg after our second drink, so I decided to return the favor. Sliding my hand up and down her thigh. Pam was enjoying the touching, so she gets close and whispers she wants to leave. Which we do. Off to her house, we go.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We get to her house, where Pam fixes us another drink. We’re sitting on her sofa where I tell her I really enjoyed running my hand up her skirt and her thigh. Pam says what’s stopping you? I pull up and we kiss deeply, and I slide my hand up her skirt, and my fingers find her wet panties. I put a couple of fingers in and Pam goes nuts. Off come our clothes, and next thing Pam was sucking my dick. I love older women because they have great experience. She sucked me til I almost came. I stop her, and lay her back on the sofa and ate her moist cunt. She screams when I make her cum. Then my dick went in. We fucked missionary for a while, then I flipped her over and doggy her. Pam was grunting and screaming with every hard thrust. She tells me to cum in her, which I did. I unload in her, and she takes my dick and licks it off. We take a little break before our next go round. We go to her bedroom, where she breaks out some lube. Pam asks if I want to fuck her in the ass. Yes!! So for the next 45 minutes, I’m deep in her ass! Pam is going nuts. I pulled out and shoot a big load on her ass. We were exhausted, but I had to get home by then. Loved that fuck session.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept in touch, and fucked a few more times before she moved.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Always wanted to fuck Pam thoroughly

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She moved away

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was fun, and I made it a point since then to fuck older women

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love casual sex

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good site

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