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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Hotelier
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Free Spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Never Counted
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

After Party…

How long ago did this hookup happen? Once

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is 5.10′. A bit on the stocky side with a very inviting pair of lips that always appeared moist. He and I have been friends for a few years now. We flirted from time to time but kept it friendly. Although very handsome, he wasn’t really my type. She is slim cute and busty with flirty eyes. They were a new couple, A beautiful one at that! This is the first time I’m meeting her. They came to pick me up from home to attend in mutual friends party. I immediately took a liking to her. Not only was she cute but she was very personable very easy to talk. She wasn’t trying too hard. The The chemistry between us just flowed. I knew it was going to be a good night…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We reach the party and did a few shots of whiskey to get us warmed up. The DJ was a mutual friend who knew how to work a crowd. We started dancing immediately. A compilation of old-school and new school reggae filled the room. Reggae and Caribbean people go together like peanut butter and jelly, we were in musical heaven! I was dancing alone and she came up, turned her back towards me and proceeded to dance. She begins to seductively gyrate on me. I was turned on, and I knew he was also, judging from the smile on his face as he looked on. She had on a short white top that exposed her back. I love the dip of a woman’s back. I proceeded to run my fingers up and down her back. She leaned closer to me and kissed me on the cheeks. We laughed then she walked back to him. I think they set me up! I often wondered if she did that to see if I was “down”. I certainly was! I wanted her… Bad!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It’s the end of the night and she suggest we go to his house for the after party. I agreed… The night was still young! We get to his place, kick off our shoes and get comfortable. He turns on the music and poured us a drink. We start dancing and laughing… She climbs up on his bar and peels off her shirt, releasing the most beautiful plump breasts I’ve ever seen. I don’t know what came over me, but I walked towards her and proceeded to rub her breasts. I pulled my hand back and apologized. He walks up to me, grabs my face and said “no need to apologize, we want you”. He begins to kiss me and I immediately feel my pussy getting wet! His kiss was intense and passionate. She then comes up behind me and pulls off my shirt and start rubbing my breast. I felt so damn good! He then leads us to his bedroom where they proceed to strip me then each other. They lay me on the bed and kiss me all over. He opens my legs and starts ravaging my pussy! Prior to this I never cared for having my pussy eaten. Prior to no one has Ever eaten my pussy so good! It felt like my soul was leaving my body! This man had his whole face in my crotch and was sucking the life out of my pussy! At some point she goes down to join him. I squirted all over them… I was embarrassed, but they enjoyed it. Although totally exasperated, I wanted to return the favor. See, I’m a control freak and am usually the aggressor. The feeling of being controlled was new to me, yet I loved it! I was in complete bliss. I got up and began to suck his dick, she joined me. His moans were so sexy. He then demands that we lay back. Like a true multitasker, he fucks her while feasting on my pussy at the same damn time. He tries to switch but I declined… I just wanted him to eat my pussy. We came and fell asleep in each other arms!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Next morning we got up, showered, he made breakfast and we just hung out like a happy threesome. There was no awkwardness which I appreciated! This happened 2 years ago. They are now separated, but I have been with both sexually, individually. She most recently. It was an amazing night that I wouldn’t mind experiencing again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? This is my first time sharing it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was effortless, fun and exciting!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? If he had a bigger dick, I would have let him penetrate me. What can I say… I love a big dick! ????

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex, done responsibly, is fine. Sex is not the most important thing for me but it is huge! I like to say life is like a box of chocolates, you have to bite into a few until you get the one that you like!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project?  This is an interesting project. I was referred by a friend of mine and once I started reading the story is I was very intrigued.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!