What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Houston, Tx
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? a little kink now and then
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6

After the Awards Show

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1997

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had known P for a while. She headed up an office near mine. We had gotten to know each other thru a mutual organization, and had hooked up a couple of times. She was a few years older than me, and apparently didn’t mind me being married at the time. She was a good looking lady, with great tits and ass, and beautiful legs I could look at all day. I knew that we would be hooking up again soon, and many more times after.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were both going to attend an advertising awards show. My wife never showed interest in what I did then, so I went stag. P had been planning to go as well, so I kept a seat next to me reserved for her. When she arrived, P looked awesome, wearing a long skirt with what looked like a mile long slit on one side. .Her top also was low cut, showing off her wonderful breasts. She definitely turned heads, and sat next to me. During the course of the show, the lights went low and I felt her hand on my lap til she started feeling my rigid cock. I was hoping I wouldn’t have to stand. I returned the favor, sliding my hand up her skirt slit, and felt the top of what were stockings. I was really excited about this. I whispered to P what her plans were after the show, to which she responded “fucking you”.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the show, we both sped off to P’s house for a quick drink on her sofa, which quickly escalated into serious groping, stripping and licking. I started by unbuttoning her top, and exposing her tasty tits. I licked and sucked on her nipples, while P gasped in delight. I took off her top, then took her out of her skirt and left her in only her underwear, stockings and heels. P lay down on the sofa while I slowly took her panties off and started nibbling my way up her legs. My face was buried deep in her pussy and enjoying every second, making her cum several times. P then turned the tables on me, sucking my cock like there was no tomorrow. This fuck session was turning out better than any of our previous times. I was about ready to cum, when P suggested taking our fun into her bedroom, where we fucked for hours in a variety of positions, but finishing it off by fucking her doggy style and cuming on her ass.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both felt pretty good about our hook up. Although I was married, P didn’t seem to mind. We talked a good while, and had a few more sessions before she moved away.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was somewhat planned, but still spontaneous and hot. P was hungry for some hot sex that particular night.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having it end

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Made me enjoy slightly older women a lot more

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve enjoyed casual sex with a variety of women over the years, and I enjoy the spontaneity of it. No changes at all

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Enjoy reading all the various adventures

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!