Current location: Munich (Germany)
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
After the Big Game
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? ONS
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a 25-or-so-year-old with blue eyes, a cocky smile, a generally positive attitude and somewhat care-free. She was not overly thin, which I don’t mind at all. I find her quite attractive.
We met at this bar where I watched a semi-final Champions League football match (or soccer for the Americans), which my team lost in a catastrophic fashion. Me and my friends decided that the best way to cope would be getting plastered, which we succeeded at. One of my friends was actually trying to get closer to a girl called Liz (name changed, obviously 😉 ), and a bit later this girl Liz was joined by her friend, Liz! I instantly had an excuse to chat with the second Liz, with name-sameness and all. Turned out, she was, like myself, not from Munich but a place close to where I grew up. We chatted for a bit. Then she left our table to talk to another guy (turned out she had had a crush on him and actually came to hook up with him, but he was way more drunk than anybody else). At one point I decided, nah, come-on, go for it. It was a half year after my adventures with Weird Metro Girl and I wanted a self-confidence boost, badly. So I got her to return to our table and bought us drinks.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We proceeded getting drunker and drunkererer, chatted, touched a bit, and somehow ended up making out on the girls’ toilet. At that point I asked her if she needed someone to bring her home. The other Liz had already started getting anxious for Liz’s well-being so I assured her I would bring her to her taxi. I dunno if anybody assumed I would be in that taxi as well.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We quickly ended up in her bed, got some water to drink and started making out. I have to admit, at that point I was still quite the shy guy (oh how three months changed me, more stories to come…), and I did not expect actual SEX to happen during that night (I did not bring protection either, so there was that). Nevertheless I proceeded to slowly undressing her. She was quite nervous about her belly and breasts, but I managed to calm her and assure her that I liked what I saw, touched and kissed. She lost all her nervousness after a while and the making out became more and more passionate, while our clothes became less and less located on our bodies.
At that point I said to her “I hope we can have sex one day” to which she giggled and said “one day”? Turns out she had condoms next to her bed.
Another problem occurred then: I could not get hard. She gave me handjobs, blowjobs, nothing. That night I blamed the alcohol (which certainly played a part); but later I found out that I take medication that can have this side-effect – my next story will be about this topic, mainly. I assured her we could fuck in the morning and that I would please her in other ways, and so I did. Fingers were used, a tongue was used, much to her pleasure. I assume she did not fake her orgasms as they were too silent etc.; I always assume if they fake it, they do so in a more bombastic fashion. Hers were the type that you recognize by twitching, moaning, turning, grabbing sheets and stuff like that. She had maybe three of them before we fell asleep after some cuddling.
When we woke up my dick was finally in a shape that could be PIV’ed, so we did. I also licked her some more and fingered her, rubbed her clit (not too much, she did not like that), she had one or two more. After I came we cuddled for hours.
I gave her my number and went home around 6 pm that day. There was much time spent without clothes in that flat on that day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms. We did not discuss.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Horniness, self-esteem boosting. For her, probably horniness I guess 😀
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Quite a lot of alcohol. That was a bit of a negative, certainly.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She did never call me, wrote me on Facebook months later that she is not interested in dealing with men at the moment. Later (about two weeks ago) I met her, she was even drunker than that night, and not very nice (she told me she found that I had been too cautious in bed for her to really enjoy it – if she only knew me now 😉 ).
I don’t want to hook up with her again, mainly because she seems to drink too much and tends to be not nice then. It’s one thing to get drunk after a game, another to stumble around drunk for no reason at all.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My usual best friends. They are always very positive and curious about my sex-life.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was actually getting a girl into bed on my initiative. Metro Girl was her, this was the first time I instigated it.
The worst was not getting hard and the drunkenness of it all. And her attitude afterwards, of course.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? This hookup made me move even further away from my Catholic upbringing and made me happy about myself. I have since changed in so many ways sexually, and I am very happy with what is going on. This hookup was a good step in the right direction for me. I will elaborate in future stories, of course.
To get a better sense of MrSqueak’s background, check out his first story, Weird Metro Girl.
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