What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Indian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
After Work Drinks
How long ago did this hookup happen? 12 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M was Japanese, petite, dark tanned skin and appeared that she took incredibly good care of herself. She had recently been transferred to the country for work, but on a different team than me. I used to check her out all the time.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had after work drinks one day and her team was invited too. The work event finished fairly early in the evening and a few of us stayed on. My GF at the time was out of town and I didn’t have any other plans, so I stayed on too. The venue got crowded quickly, so the remaining people decided to move to another location. As we were walking out of the venue, I gave M my hand, so we wouldn’t get lost in the crowd.
The chemistry started there. We didn’t let go of each others hands all night.
We eventually went to a night club, danced a while, drank a little more. I eventually kissed M. It felt really good.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We left the night club and M asked me if I had some condoms. I didn’t, so we stopped at a convenience store to get some. We took a taxi back to her place, made out in the taxi … then more heavy petting on her sofa. Eventually we moved to the bedroom, where we undressed each other.
She was wearing a matching bra and undies, the lacy type. Her breasts were small, but perky, probably C cups. Her nipples were small and erect. She was mostly shaven with a tiny landing strip.
She proceeded to suck my cock and it progressed into a sixty nine. After a while she was begging me to fuck her, but I wasn’t done eating her out, so I kept going with that, driving her crazy. Eventually she motioned for me to lie down, she unwrapped a condom and put it on my dick and started riding me.
We quickly switched to missionary, because M started sweating from the cow girl position. A few pumps later I blew my load and collapsed on top of M. We both fell asleep in each others arms.
The next morning, M work up before me, she had already showered and brushed her teeth, but she put on a silky nightgown and came back to bed. She said there was a new toothbrush for me in the bathroom (I guess everyone has bad breath after a night of drinking). I quickly brushed my teeth and we proceeded with round #2,#3, and #4 in quick succession.
I asked M if she wanted to have breakfast, but she had to be at work later that day, so I got dressed and left.
We did hook up a few times after that, but not as many times as I would’ve liked.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt pretty good the next day and surprisingly not hung over. We hooked up a few more times although not enough to call M a FWB. I’d really like to hook up with M again, one day, but we live in different countries now, so it’s unlikely.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few of my work colleagues asked me what happened, etc, but a gentlemen never tells.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was easy, we both wanted it and it felt pretty good.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had a GF at the time and I guess it was cheating.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes – humans aren’t meant to be monogamous.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome website.
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