What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 68
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Welder/rigger (retired)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2 or 3
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met online, at a senior hook-up site for men. I was staying in a motel, and I watched as he got out of his car and walked to the building. He looked older than me, and a little frail. Kind looking, average height and weight. Whatever that is. I asked who it was when he knocked, and opened the door for him in my briefs. We’d mentioned my being undressed during out email exchange. We’d never met before.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well, we were there to have man-on-man sex. I’d taken a viagra, and a nice chunk of pot brownie; I was intensely horny. We both wanted the same thing, to get off together.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was already half-undressed, and half-hard, so I matter-of-factly undressed him as he stood next to the bed. I put his clothes (lightly folded) on the easy chair in the room, and when his jeans and underwear were gone (with his t-shirt still on) I started to stroke him, and he responded nicely. I could feel the life in his growing erection; actually feel his pulse in his dick. He’d taken a viagra too, although I didn’t know it at the time. He quickly slipped his hand into my briefs, and we jacked each other. My laptop was on the desk, with gay porn playing. Oral stuff – he had let me know early on that he didn’t do anal. Fine with me.
Once completely naked, we lay down on the bed and masturbated side by side. Soon he was stroking me and I him; exciting but awkward. We kissed. My suggestion; he said yes and we tried it. Not so good.
We kept jacking and soon I slipped down by his side to jerk him more comfortably. I’d never sucked a bare cock (had tried it twice before while the guy wore a condom) but he just looked so good; shiny with the lube we were using, and a little pre-cum I suppose…
I swallowed his shiny cock with a groan, taking him into my mouth and down my throat. It felt and tasted so good! He was not too big, no more than 6 inches, and I could easily swallow him. At some point I asked him to sit on top of me and fuck my mouth, which he did. He wasn’t very strong (a little feeble, actually) and I could feel him shaking as he sat on my chest feeding me his dick. I thought he was going to have a coronary, as by that time he’d told me he had taken a viagra to overcome his heart medication! Still, we were so hot for one another it didn’t matter at all. Everybody dies sometime, I thought, and soon he told me that he was close; I could truly feel his cock throbbing in my mouth as he groaned above me, I asked him to slide down on top of me and cum on my chest, which he did, jacking himself and squirting onto my chest and belly. I’m pretty sure I’ll never get tired of hard cocks, and watching them orgasm! I laid him back gently on the bed – he was really shaking now – and cleaned him up a bit with paper towels. Completely, achingly hard now, I moved on top of him and stared to J.O. I was so close! When I told him I was going to cum he suggested I climax on his penis (which was still half-erect) and his balls, and I obliged him, pumping my load onto his lower belly and his cock. I orgasm really hard, and this was one of the best, loud and lusty.
As my orgasm wound down, I gently lowered down on top of him, and licked my jizz from his penis. I licked him clean, and couldn’t get enough. I’d licked women’s tummys and tits clean of my cum before, but this was different. I was sucking and licking a cum-covered cock! even though the semen was my own…
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We emailed back & forth later that day – we’d had sex in mid-afternoon – and chatted the next day as well.
I felt good about it, it was quite intense and heated for 2 old guys.
He wanted it again, but it’s tough for me to host and it was the same for him. He had a girlfriend, I was married. I still hear from him now and then but we haven’t played again.
I’d happily have sex with him again, fo one thing we’d both be less nervous!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve talked to no one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sucking a bareback cock, after fantasizing about it for 50+ years.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He was rather quiet, although passionate enough. Not a very good kisser. Also that I didn’t let him cum in my mouth. I REALLY wanted it, but didn’t have the nerve.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? That I’m still waiting to bring my first man to orgasm orally.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m a libertine. We should be getting all we can, as long as we don’t terribly hurt another person in the process.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.
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