What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 100
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This hook up happened when I was living and studying in London and spending the summer doing an internship and some bar work to make ends meet. It was a hot day and I because it was my day off I was spending the afternoon in the beer garden of the pub where I worked having a few beers with some mates. The girl was at the next table. I recognised her because she had been in before and I had served a few times but never spoken to her apart from that. She was fairly tall, curvy, with pale skin and dark hair cut quite short. She was wearing a very short, dark green dress. She was sitting with a group of guys and one of them seemed to be her boyfriend. She was in her early twenties and probably still a student as well.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The two of us were facing each other and we kept catching each other’s eye. After this had happened a few times, she started smiling at me. I could see her legs under the table and eventually she opened them – she was deliberately giving me a look up her dress. I couldn’t believe my luck. Soon after that, she got up. I could see that she was heading for the toilets and decided to take a chance and follow her. When we got there, instead of going into the ladies she turned around, looked around to make sure nobody was looking, and beckoned me to follow her into the disabled toilet instead.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we were inside, I pushed her up against the back of the door and started kissing her. I knew we couldn’t risk being gone for too long, so I shoved my hand up her dress and into her panties and got a finger inside her and then ran it up to her clit. I repeated that maybe half a dozen times. As soon as she was wet enough, I turned her around, hiked her dress up around her waist and pulled her panties down to her knees. She bent over against the door as I got my dick out of my shorts. I fucked her hard and fast, enjoying the view of her fantastic arse as she tried to keep quiet so nobody outside heard us. It only took maybe two or three minutes for me to come inside her. She pulled her panties up, washed her hands, stuck her head out of the door to make sure nobody was looking, smiled and me and left. By the time I got back to my table, she and the guys she was with were getting ready to leave. Making sure they didn’t see her, she smiled at me as she walked past.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing. I did see her in the pub again a few times after that when I was working, but we didn’t acknowledge what had happened and it never happened again, which didn’t really bother me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Hot, easy, no strings attached. Also the sense of it being forbidden because it was in a public place, with both of our mates and her boyfriend around.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It would have been good to have sex with her again, or for longer.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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