What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Bristol, UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Chemist
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I matched with Clare on a well known dating app when I was idly swiping profiles one Saturday afternoon. I had recently moved to Cardiff for a job and I didn’t know many people, so I was at a bit of a loose end.
I liked her profile immediately. She was petite, with dark, pixie cut hair, and a faintly mischievous smile in her pictures. She’d obviously seen me first because when I swiped it was an instant match, so I immediately sent her a message to say hello. Within a few minutes of messaging, Clare responded, and within a very short time we were exchanging texts. It didn’t take long for them to become pretty flirty and suggestive.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I asked her what sort of thing she was looking for on the dating app and she responded that the summer sun was making her horny and she actually just really needed to be fucked. I’ve been fairly successful on the internet dating scene over the years, but this was a new level of forwardness. I could see from the app that she lived fairly close by, so I asked her where in the city she was. It turns out she was just a short walk from my house, so I immediately invited her to come and visit.
She eagerly agreed and I gave her my address. She said she needed a short while to freshen up and then she’d be over. I couldn’t believe my luck. Looking at the time, the whole exchange had only taken about 30 minutes since the time I’d first seen her profile, and I was expecting her to turn up within the hour! Clare knocked on the door a very short while later, and when I opened the door I was really blown away. She was super cute in a floaty yellow summer dress and strappy silver sandals. She was only about 5’2 which made me smile because I’m well over six feet and I’ve always liked tiny women. After a very brief introduction, she raised herself up on tiptoes and kissed me very delicately on the lips. Then she looked up at me with big brown eyes, smiled that mischievous smile, and with barely a word she skipped past me into the house. I was shocked by her daring and confidence. She was tiny, but she had a real force of personality.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Clare walked through into the dining area of the house and propped her bum on the edge of the dining table, before very deliberately lifting the hem of the little summer dress to flash her very naked pussy at me. “I really need you to fuck me,” she stated simply. I didn’t need asking twice. I moved to her immediately and knelt down in front of her to taste her sex. She moaned appreciatively and settled back onto the table with her legs spread and her hands pushing my head firmly towards her. She was already soaking wet, with pussy juices moistening the insides of the her smooth thighs. I lapped at her greedily, and pushed a couple of fingers inside her to feel her cunt clenching with pleasure. She came within moments, arching her back and whimpering.
I stood back up and she grabbed me and kissed me again, hard this time. Pushing her tongue into me and seemingly keen to taste herself on my lips and face. Then, she reached down to massage the straining bulge of my cock in my jeans, and soon I was stumbling out of my clothes. She helped me to get undressed, all the while stroking my cock and balls with gentle hands. As soon as I was naked, she guided my cock into her sopping pussy and lay back on the table with her knees hitched up to give me full access. I fucked her hard like this for some time, my penis pushing deeply into her as she came again. After she orgasmed for the second time she stopped me, turned around to be bent over the table, and exposed her ass. She then begged me to fuck her again from behind.
My cock slid into her again and I grabbed her hips to begin thrusting. It was real animalistic rutting. She was grunting with the pleasure of being fucked so hard and I think she came several more times in quick succession before I finally orgasmed. It felt like a bomb had explosded in my balls I came so hard. We lay like that, floped over the dining table for some time, my cock still inside her. I gently stroked her round ass and we kissed a little. Then she pushed me off her, straightened her dress, gave me a final peck on the lips, and saw herself to the door.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We messaged each other a few times after that first hookup, and we had sex maybe half a dozen more times over the following year or so. She was a very fun sexual partner and clearly had no desire for an emotional connection, but it was never quite the same as it was the first time, where the anonymity and urgency of the occasion both added to the incredible intensity of the sex. Unfortunately, it was just one of those perfect sets of circumstance that are impossible to replicate.
I moved back to Bristol a couple of years later and we didn’t keep in touch, but I often find myself fantasising about that afternoon.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked about it with a friend a few days later. He is married and in a very sex-normative relationship so he tended to try to live vicariously through my various hook-up stories. He thought this one was pretty hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was a combination of the speed and urgency with which it happened, and the almost total anonymity of that initial encounter. It was extremely erotic.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it was such a one-off by definition. You just could never hope to repeat the combination of events which led to it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t think so.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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