by OwnIt

Gender: Female
Age: 25
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Florida
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Non-Profits
Relationship status: In a serious relationship
Religious affiliation: Spiritual
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

All I Want for My Birthday is a Big Booty Ho

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.8 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one-night stand with friend

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her in college, she was one of my close friends. When I moved after school she was one of the only people I knew. She’s a little emotional and also kind of socially needy. But she is also fun, caring, and really really really pretty. I’ve known her for 6 years.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in the car on my way home from going out for my 24th birthday. No planning was involved, at least not on my part. She instigated it. We’ve been friends so she knew that I’ve hooked up with girls before and said she did it once (which I kind of think is a lie) but masturbates to lesbian porn. She asked me to finger her in her car, I hadn’t been with a girl for a while, and I was single, drunk, and singing “all I want for my birthday is a big booty ho” all day, so I obviously fingered her in her car.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to my apartment and drank a little more, then hooked up in my bedroom.  We started by making out, she’s a really good kisser and has really nice boobs. I touched her, took off her pants, and continued to kiss. Then she did the same. I think it was her first time with a girl because I did most of the work. She talked a little dirty, and moaned a lot. I ate her out for quite a while, I still remember the taste, and the way she looked. I was kind of drunk and I don’t think she went down on me really, just touched me a lot and fingered me. I brought out a vibrator at some point because I wanted to make her cum, but she didn’t want to use it. I think that’s the point where we both kinda realized I had a little more sexual depth. I don’t know if that made her nervous but we stopped a little after that. I didn’t cum, but I felt fucking awesome the whole time. Before I had been really drunk when I hooked up with girls, this was the first that I remembered. I’m usually with guys and have a sort of hunger for pussy sometimes. It felt really good to be able to let that loose, no consequences. She was hot, and it was really good, but I wish she ya know, gave a little more back at me. We’re still friends and actually kissed drunkenly a week ago. I feel it in me the want to fuck her, but I also am in a relationship (with a man). So I didn’t.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We were close friends and both knew each others past. We were both tested and knew this beforehand.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was my birthday, she’s really hot, I got drunk, she got drunk, we wanted some pussy. Not to sound crude but it was kinda simple.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes alcohol. We weren’t that drunk, but not 100% sober. I had one cocktail beforehand and a little wine when we got home.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t really have any residual anything. I felt good, it was a nice memory. But I’m not really interested in a relationship with a girl so I don’t feel the need to do much post hook up. We still hang out. But we don’t really talk about that night. But we both know. And we kissed recently when very drunk, but I told her no to more. It’s a temptation, but I’m trying not to. I’m really in a good relationship now.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone until now I guess.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, because I am young and learning about my sexuality. I’m glad I listened to the part in me that wants women.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was pretty hot. I actually still think about it sometimes when I masturbate. I let loose and listened to my wants and I’m glad. I don’t want to repress who I am or what I want. It made me realize that I like having sex with girls and guys.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Be you. Fuck it, at the end of it all you have to know that you lived your life the way you wanted to live it.

 

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