What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 61
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Seattle
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
All Night Long
How long ago did this hookup happen? 40 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was 21. She was in her mid-late 20’s.
She was a little over weight, sort of plain looking.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was a soldier in Germany and misread the train schedule. I was visiting one town and planned to catch the last train back. But on that Saturday, there was no late train. It was around 9 pm and I went to the billeting office. There was a woman who was caught out, same as me, an American school teacher in the military dependent school system.
A woman in the billeting office called around and found one room with a king bed available in a gasthaus on the other side of town. She called a cab and I and the woman went to the gasthaus. We decided to split the bill and share the bed.
We talked for a couple of hours and she was a nice person. I liked her. It was getting late and we decided to turn in. I was confused about what was going on. She seem nice, but I was not going to put a move on her and then have it end badly. I got into bed with my jeans on because that day, of all days, I had gone commando.
After a bit, I said that i was uncomfortable with my jeans on and she said to take them off. I said that I wasn’t’ wearing any underwear. She said that it was okay. I shucked the jeans and then I was nude in bed and I reached over for her and she rolled over into me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We fucked about 6 times between midnight and 4 am. I was 21 and I was full of it. We napped an hour or and then we fucked some more before we got up and ate breakfast. It was all straight on missionary, no kink.
I think back on it and I think she liked it because she was a willing partner for more fucking. There were no condoms and I wonder what a mess we made of that bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I felt like I was floating all day. I have never felt that good again in my life.
I hope she is well, I hope she didn’t get pregnant.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told all my buddies back at the the base about it.
They were jealous.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I felt like a stud. I could fuck all night long and it was good.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended?
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I sometimes wondered how she saw me. Was I just another hard dicked GI and she decided to fuck me? I don’t know.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This is one of the rare casual sex encounters about which I have positive feelings.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I posted another story that was not positive and it hasn’t appeared on the site. I wonder if this site is filtering stories and only posting those that are positive.
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