by Kari

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: PA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Photographer
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

All Nighters

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends-with-benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met through a mutual friend at a hockey game a year and half ago from now. This was the first obvious connection that we had. At the time, he wasn’t my type to be in any kind of relationship besides being just friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The multiple hookups began that very first night we met/hung out, going from the game back to his place. It was something that just happened. . . multiple times within that night and at the time I didn’t know if we would repeat or not but did.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first two nights of hookups we had boring “vanilla” sex. I might have got off once. The sex didn’t affect our friendship for awhile but we didn’t talk or anything for a whole year but recently we reconnected on all levels. Every time we would get together there are multiple times throughout the night and got even better with every occurrence with both of us getting off every time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Only thing that was mentioned was to always have a stash of condoms in reach.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? The sex just has always seemed natural and almost expected.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? If he didn’t move more than 2 hours away I could have seen us being in a full romantic relationship. But we still are on a good friend level.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Mainly just to the two mutual friends we have. After the long no communication time the one was in complete shock that it went there again.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I would blame myself for scaring him off when my partner went into isolation but now after him being open about that time period I am happy for the connection we have made with each other.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I thought that size mattered in a guy but after seeing how individuals “learn” to use it I have no care about size.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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