What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Recovering sex addict
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Too many
All tied up
How long ago did this hookup happen? A few years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? C is a girl that I knew through work. She worked in a different department but in close proximity to me, so we got to know each other well. I wrote about our first encounter in “Work Fling”. She has a great body and a nerdy exterior. Though she sure knows how to dress to accentuate her curves. And she had a very healthy sexual appetite.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had fantasized for a while, about me tying her up and having my way with her. So one night when I had the house to myself, I organized a play date. I set the bed up with ties and a blind fold.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She showed up and we went upstairs to the bed. We had agreed that she only had about an hour. Which was too bad because I wanted more time, but it was ok. We had rules. #1 and most important was that she couldn’t speak without being spoken to. And #2 she always needed to refer to me as Sir. She had a safe word, but I can’t remember what it was.
I undressed her and laid her down on her back, tied up her legs and arms. I then used my tie to blindfold her. I had mentioned in the previous story that she had trouble giving up control during sex. So this was a way of forcing her to let go a bit.
She began to squirm as I hovered my fingers over her body. I ran them along her body without touching her. She could feel my energy above her. Her hairs were standing upright as I did. I began to do the same with my lips without touching her. When I finally touched her, it was with a kiss on her neck. I began to explore her entire body with my lips. I came close to kissing her but didn’t give her the satisfaction of a full kiss. I then continued to explore her nipples and stomach until I made my way down to her pussy. I licked her pussy for a while, until she got close to cumming but I didn’t allow her to cum. Finally, after more minutes of teasing, I slid inside her. I pounded her as hard as I could, as though I didn’t care about her pleasure at all. She was my plaything and this was all about my animalistic desires. I fucked her hard until I told her to flip over. I had given her enough slack to flip over so she crossed her arms and I untied her legs so she she could bend over. I inserted her from behind and fingered her ass while I fucked her doggy style. She was moaning and screaming so I pulled out and shoved my wet cock in her mouth to shut her up. I then stuffed her panties in her mouth and went back to fucking her until I came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? This was the last time her and I hooked up. She had propositioned me a few months later but I declined. Her and I still run in the same circle and are friends but we aren’t close to being as friendly as we used to be. That’s a good thing ultimately.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She has a great body and I always enjoyed fucking her.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was too short.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like to see sex and romance be seperated. They don’t need to be completely intertwined.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great!
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