by Bek

Gender: Female
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Yorkshire, England
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Unemployed
Relationship status: seeing someone
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Amazing Night!

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup? one night stand

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We kissed in the club, then at the end of the night he invited me back to his house.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was crazy! He was rough and kinky, which is what I like. It was really passionate and we seemed to like the same things. We were up all night , doing absolutely everything. He was fantastic and knew how to make me feel good. I had an orgasm, which is unusual for me on a first time. He also came, a few times.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom for the first time, but we only had one. After that, we discussed our sexual health. He had just got out of a two year relationship and had not engaged in any casual sex. And I had recently had an asymptomatic STI, which was all clear so we decided to have sex a few more times without a condom. I have an IUD, so pregnancy was not a risk.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to have sex. Simple as. I didn’t want a date or romance. I just wanted sex.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had both drank a lot on the night out, but were largely sober by the time we got to his. (I made him make me a black tea when we first got to his as well. I can’t orgasm when I’m drunk and I wanted to sober up a little.)

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards, I left. We had been up all night and I had plans the following morning. I had hoped he would ask for my number, as the sex was good. I wanted to do it again. But he didn’t, so I left it. I ran into him a couple of months later and ignored him completely. He kept looking my way, but I pretended not to see him. Firstly, if he had liked me, he should have asked for my number and secondly, by this point, I was seeing someone exclusively.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friend, who praised me on finding a lad who was good in bed! My family were less impressed when I admitted what I had done, because they didn’t feel it was an appropriate way for me to behave.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual and wanted for us both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was good sex. He seemed to absolutely adore my body, which was nice. (I have a lot of body issues) it was a nice self esteem boost. I felt sexy, desired and wanted. And its nice to feel like that.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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