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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Self employed
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

American Beauty – 1

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? G is an American girl living in UK. Married. 5’7″, great yoga body, lovely lovely legs and arse. She had a unique look of innocence and delinquency at the same time. We meet via some sports training we were doing. First time seeing her there was good banter and a bit of flirting. Second time we met I notice she’d removed her engagement and wedding ring so clearly there was some acknowledged attraction. Everything started of innocently enough – cycle around the park and a drink.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’d kissed one day having quickly met in a bar. To use someone else’s analogy from CSP it was that kissing as foreplay type of kiss. There had been lots of build up so it was very intense. Reminiscent of your first ever kiss – giddy. Subsequent meetings involved less training and more making out. Talking about sex, preferences, wishes. This culminated in rather long sexting sessions where I’d message her at work increasingly elaborate scenarios of where we could meet, what we’d do, how I’d fuck her, what she’d feel. Needless to say tension was increasing exponentially. After a few weeks we met for one drink which became many. I walked her back to her flat (her partner was away).

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One of the scenarios we texted about revolved around having sex up against a wall. As soon as we got in her flat I pushed her against the wall lifting her slightly. We kissed with reckless abandon, sometimes intense, sometimes teasing with small bites. This carried on through the corridor to the living room and onto the sofa finding ourselves pretty much naked. I gently fingered her a little to get her scent on my hand. My hands then moved around her body. Where I touched I then kissed. She got the cue and started to take control of my hand moving it on, around and in her which I followed with my tongue. She moved around on top to straddle me. With her knickers still on and slightly hitched to the side she said something like “fuck it” and pushed back onto my cock in one go. It had that amazing feeling of being tight, and a little dry until a few times of her writhing up and down released a lot of wetness. I pulled her knickers further to the side and we fucked like that until she came. We swapped positions variously fucking her from behind, her on top pinning me down. Annoyingly the alcohol kicked in big time and I couldn’t cum. I found myself bolkock naked, balls bursting, with a stunning women in a sexually charged atmosphere but nothing happening. She dropped to her knees and did a valiant job of deep throating me but to no avail. By this point I was 6 hours late from my one pint in the pub so had to Uber it home conjuring up plausible excuses en route.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A heady mix of exhausted, hungover, excited, enthralled and fulfilled. I hoped we’d meet again, which we did (story to follow)

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fulfillment, to an extent of weeks of chat and anticipation.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I couldn’t cum

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent. Addictive

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