by RT

Gender: Female
Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: Mixed
Current location: Kansas
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Occupation: Business
Relationship status: Engaged
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Experimented with women a little
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first

American Girl In London

How long ago did this hookup happen? Three Years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short Fling/Short Relationship

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We’ll call him Mike, he was handsome with short brown hair and a goatee and was also quite fit.  He was also a few years younger than me.  We met at a pub while I was in London a few years back, and I think we were both a little surprised to find another American there.  I instantly felt an attraction to him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Since this is my first post, I will share a little bit of background.  This whole thing was a bit out of character for me.  Most of my number is from college, I had a few short flings and one night stands there but they were with guys I knew.  For me to meet and sleep with a guy within hours of meeting him, for me this was a first.
I had gone to London for work for a few months and at the time I was dealing with the end of an over five year relationship due to infidelity.  I had been deeply in love with this guy so it really hurt, and I just could not work my way past the cheating.  My first month in London I had done a few touristy things and seen the sights, but mostly I just moped around the apartment the company had for me.  I had one friend there “Amber” who worked for our London Offices.  We had been friends online for years and talked on the phone a bit but this was our first time actually meeting.  We hung out a little.
One day after work Amber asked me out to a Pub for drinks, I would later learn it was for the express purposes of getting me laid.  She told me to open a few buttons on my blouse and show a little cleavage, she was showing plenty.  By this point I had figured out what she was doing but Amber agreed not to go home with anyone unless I did. I decided to go with it, and hell I had always found the English Accent kind of hot.
We were there about an hour, a few guys had bought us drinks but no one I was really attracted to or clicked with.  There was a football game on in one corner (soccer for my fellow Americans) so that had much of the bar’s attention   Mike bought us drinks and came over to talk to us, and we chatted for a while.  We were both surprised to find another American there, this pub was well off the beaten path.  He mentioned he thought I was hot, something I had not heard from a man for a long time.  He touched my leg a little and we kissed and I let him feel me up a bit.  Amber finally told me if I wasn’t going home with him she was.  I finally agreed to go back to his place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was pretty nervous even with the drinks I had and I have found I always am with a new partner.  He undressed me feeling me and kissing my skin as he went.  He felt my pussy a little and grabbed my breasts before finally laying me down on the bed.  He played with my breasts a bit and sucked on them before finally penetrating me and ridding me in missionary for a few minutes.  He didn’t take long and he groaned a lot but he was soon done.  It was ok but nothing special.
We talked a little before going again, I think Mike could tell I hadn’t really enjoyed myself.  He said he was a little drunk so he began to finger me a bit, and this felt amazing.  I could feel myself growing hot and sweaty and Mike had me near climax before finally entering me again and granting me a great orgasm.  I fell asleep soon after.
In the morning I woke up confused with a headache a bit hung over.  I was naked in a strange apartment in a strange man’s bed with his arms around me.  He was a perfect gentleman though, making me breakfast and offering to call a cab to wherever I needed to go.  We talked a lot about all kinds of things, after finding signs of a woman in his apartment he told me he too was going through the recent end of a long term relationship.  Apparently he had moved here with her a few years back and was now single in London.  We kissed and agreed to meet again and I took that cab home.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Mike did the first time, I did the second.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms but didn’t really discuss STIs beyond that.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Alcohol and Amber pushing me, and a desire to get over my ex.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had a few drinks, and was a little buzzed.  I would say inhibitions were gone but I was still in control.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Basically we were together until I left London.  We did the normal couple stuff, went on dates and out to dinner, to a game and art shows.  We also had a lot of good sex but I think we always knew there was an expiration date on our fling.  My assignment in London ended about three months later and we stayed in contact via email for a few months after, but those got less and less and I broke them off completely when I met my fiancé.  He did email last summer saying he was moving back to the States and wanted to get in contact but I sent a message back saying I was seeing someone and he messaged me best wishes.  Maybe things with Mike could have turned serious if I had stayed in London, but then I would have never met my fiancé.  However I think for both of us with that definite expiration date this was always a rebound fling.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Amber knew and wanted the juicy details, she always has been a bit of a pervert and her night hadn’t been that great.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for us both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Honestly, not one bit

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best part was getting over my ex, worst part was I think always knowing that this would be short lived.  This was what I feel my first true hookup, meeting a guy and sleeping with him within hours.  I did feel a lot better about myself after sleeping with Mike and had I not been with him I may have never gone near my fiancé.  I will close with this remark, I feel my recent engagement a few months ago had left me somewhat reflective as to past casual sex and hookups.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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