Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Gay
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 500+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Among The Waves
How long ago did this hookup happen? 39 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sudden sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a mid 40’s man. I did not know him at all.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was, like other kids, enjoying the waves and this man told us to be careful with the waves. Well, I could tell he had not much idea so I played stupid and soon I was asking him about the size of his cock; if he had pubic hair; if I could see it and touch it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The man got very aroused and so did I. We rubbed our bodies and penises. We did not come because we were in the water as many more people were. We could not have full blown sex there and then.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny and I really wanted to have sex with a man. I was just 12 years old. I was beginning to become an adolescent.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great. I knew I was not going to meet the stranger again.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my friends. They did not believe me I had a sexual encounter with a man at 13:30 in summer, in the water, when more people are also in the water.
Some of them thought I was making up the story .
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I just liked it. I would love to have more sex like that, with strangers, there and then.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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