What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Montreal
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Not relevant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Kinky..
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Forty plus
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Two
An affair to remember
How long ago did this hookup happen? One night ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Its on…the affair….
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well my lover has been a friend, business acquaintance for many years, someone out of bounds due to marriage. He has a heart of gold and is a true romantic. Was very much into him as he was into me, we are both sapiosexuals and have been enjoying intellectual foreplay for many years.
He his taller than me but of perfect height when we kiss, I love his chest and cock they drive me crazy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started this last Friday night and have seen each other three more times since then, and will do so as often as we can…was busy and out during the day but as soon as I could let him know, we both rushed to meet at my place…had the time to get into some lingerie and open a bottle of wine…the wine sat!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The sexual energy between us is so strong. As soon as he was within a foot of me we came together and kissed passionately, next thing he was naked, I was half naked in my negligee and we were running for the bedroom….this time he gave me the most exquisite pleasure while licking, sucking and fingering me to the point of orgasm…then we fucked like we never wanted it to end.I went down on him and made him bark!!!
Our bodies fit together like lock and key…because he took a little blue pill we went at it for a couple of hours alternating between oral and extremely wet and slow penetration…we rocked together.
I enjoyed at least a half dozen orgasms and he came twice inside me…it took two showers for him to wash off my musk…we will keep doing this…and it will be an affair to remember!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? While not making demands or wanting anything else, we are both in absolute lust with each other…we want to go shopping to buy toys and explore various kink as we both are curious and willing.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We have spoken to no one…this is our dirty secret. But writing about it is extremely exciting for both of us…he asked to write about it after reading my last entry. Who said homemade porn isn’t good porn?!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We wasted twenty years not knowing how perfect we fit together…we’re not letting go this time…and we have no clue where this will go.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He is a good man and must deal with his obligations… That is the only thing that stands between us and it cannot change and I accept it for what it is.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve been on a journey on my own for a while, now I have a partner in crime….just going to ride this wave…it still amazes me how my sexuality continues to evolve and it comes so naturally. Also in awe at how such a explosive sexual connection can happen.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We are both taking a risk pursuing such a telationship, but that seems to only add to our titillation.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? The fact is I feel more sexual and respond to his touch in a way I could not imagine last year at this time. My life has been turned upside down…and so has is…but that’s what life is all about. And what a ride it can be!!
People need to get more connected to their inner selves and sex can help create that opportunity. The human condition cannot be expressed without incorporating sexuality.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Still thinks its terrific. Hope it truly catches on.
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