by Elizabeth

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

An Awkward Romp

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had been on a few dates, after meeting online. He was tall, and had that hipster look going on. I found him very attractive and we shared a lot of similar beliefs. We had kissed briefly but nothing more.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went around to his house to teach him how to cook (he was a terrible cook and had asked for some help), it was a lot of fun although a really hot evening, so there wasn’t a lot of physical contact. After we had eaten I was sitting on the sofa admiring his collection of books. He came and sat next to me and we started to make out. He wasn’t a very good kisser but I tried to get into it nonetheless.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He led me to his room and we started to undress. He seemed to really enjoy looking at my body but was too shy to touch me. We made out some more with our naked bodies pressed up against each other. It was only then did I realize how hairy he was, something that really turned me off. He entered me with his rather disappointingly small cock, and we started to fuck. He was on top and because it was such a hot night he was sweating quite a lot onto me. I felt pretty grossed out. He came quite quickly on to my belly and then quickly wiped it off as if he was ashamed. We lay and chatted for a while and then started to fuck again. Again he didn’t last very long so I got no pleasure out of it. He came this time into the towel. We chatted again and he went to get us some water. He lay next to me and started to rub my clit which felt really good. I managed to orgasm through this and we fucked a third time. This time he still had his underwear on after getting the water, and after not very long he came into his underwear. I found it very odd that he came into the towel and his underwear. It was a pretty bad fuck and mainly awkward. I lived quite close by so I made an excuse of having to get up early the next day and left. I saw him once after that.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes we both did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No, we didn’t use condoms, which looking back was pretty silly as we didn’t discuss STI history. I’m on the pill.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was attracted to him and the feeling was mutual.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Some wine.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We didn’t see much of each other after this, and I didn’t have feelings for him after this. I felt a bit grossed out by it, especially the sweat.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some friends.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, we both wanted it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Slightly, because I don’t do hook ups very often.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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