Current location: Amherst, Mass
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: married
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you?: Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? no
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 125
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
An Ex-Student Hook Up
How long ago did this hookup happen? 44 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup? one-day stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Susan was a flirty, sexy brunette, slim with a hot body and an infectious sense of humor. I had hooked up with plenty of women, but this one was a bit taboo since she had been my high school English student just three years before the hookup. We had always laughed together, but in no way had either of us approached the other sexually while in the student-teacher relationship. She often smiled and looked at me in class when I was her teacher. I later found out she had fantasies about me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was visiting the city in Eastern Washington where I had been a teacher before going to graduate school to become a sexologist. On a whim, I called her and told her I missed our laughter together, and I was in town. She said “Do you want to come over?” I said “I’d love to.” I was 28 or 29 and she was 20 or 21 at the time.
When I arrived at her apartment, she came to the door in an off-the-shoulder blouse that was cut above her sexy navel. She clearly was not wearing a bra. I was in seventh heaven!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had an abbreviated pre-sex discussion, and she started to French kiss me while fondling my penis. She literally pulled me into her bedroom from the living room while making out the entire way. I licked and sucked her eager nipples, and she undid my belt and zipper and went down on me for what seemed like an eternity. I took off her jeans, and went down on her with equal intensity and time. She came several times while I licked and sucked her engorged clitoris, and while I fingered her G-Spot. She squirted and pleaded for me to fuck her, which I did for hours. She came many times while fucking, and so did I. We only stopped for water and an occasional erotic comment and laughter. Afterwards, she playfully exclaimed, “Oh Mr……, that was great!” I agreed, of course.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We discussed STI history, and we did not choose to use a condom. Few people used them in 1970, and the sexual revolution was underway. She was on the pill. It was so much better without a condom.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Playful horniness and a desire to reconnect with our humor together.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No alcohol or drugs were involved.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I never saw her again, but I wish I had! I did not live close to her, and moved even further away to become a college professor at several universities. I know we would still have a lot of affection for each other.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a few close friends, and they all were very favorable. I am sure she told a few people too.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? This was consensual and mutually desired for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not regret the hookup. I only regret not staying in touch with her.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that our sexual chemistry, humor and the somewhat taboo nature of our encounter combined to make it a stunning experience of two undulating bodies reaching multiple orgasms with absolute playfulness. The worst thing is that we did not continue to hook up.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I did not use either of our real names. Even though it is a long time since the hook up, I would not want to reveal who she is. We did not use the term Hook Up then, but casual sex was clearly a firm part of the sexual revolution, and the changes then have endured to the present. Today, we would have become friends with benefits.
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