Race/ethnicity: White British
Current location: London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Investment banker
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 250
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4
An Office Quickie!
How long ago did this hookup happen? A few months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J was a work colleague. She was tall, slim and blonde and had a fantastic arse. We’d been attracted to each other for some time and had flirted a lot. I knew she’d had casual ‘arrangements’ with a couple of other guys in the office before.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in the office on a Sunday morning working on something that needed to be done by the Monday. J had been there working as well – we were the only people around. She was going to have a run on her way home from the office so she’d got changed there, and before she left she came into my office to talk to me in her lycra gym shorts and tank top, which really showed off her body. I went for it straight away and told her how great she looked and we very quickly ended up kissing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had a quick check of our floor of the office to make sure there was nobody else there, then went back into my office, shut the door, took our clothes off and kept making out, completely naked, with J sitting on my desk. Then I had her stand up, and I stood behind her, kissing her neck, playing with her breasts and fingering her to get her wet. I told her I didn’t have a condom and she said it didn’t matter because she was on the pill. She told me to be quick in case we got caught, so I bent her over against the window of my office and fucked her hard from behind, making her arse cheeks jiggle, until I came inside her. When I was done, we quickly got dressed and J told me we should do it again soon, then she left.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did, she didn’t.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss STIs and took no precautions against them, it all happened too quickly and spontaneously for that. As I’ve said, we didn’t use a condom as neither of us had one, but J was on the pill. It’s very unusual for me not to use a condom – I have a lot of sex with a lot of different women, so I like to be careful.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? J was incredibly hot, and I’d wanted her for a while, so it seemed like the perfect opportunity to make it happen.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? J and I are friends and have continued to hook up regularly since. We have no romantic feelings for each other and no plans to have a relationship, we just get on well and have really good sex.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. I don’t generally talk about my sex life.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, it was hot and fun and has led to more hook ups since, which have been just as good!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was spontaneous, fast and fun, and there was that extra thrill of the possibility of getting caught. The only negative was a slight anxiety afterwards about the fact we’d had unprotected sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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