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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Wellington
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Some Amount
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Anal for the First Time (Hot Tinder Hookup)

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We matched on Tinder, had a brief conversation and of course exchanged snapchat usernames and started Snapchatting before he kept asking when I was coming around to his place which took a while for him to convince me as at that stage being new to casual sex I wasn’t that keen on meeting someone straight at their place than in public, but I caved as I was incredibly horny and ended up going to his apartment which I did not regret as he was way hotter in person than his Tinder pictures and definitely knew what he was doing, which also helped that we had been talking about what we liked sexually and he knew I liked it slightly rough.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He messaged me about coming around to his place that day as he had that day off and worked out well as his flatmates were at work.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He met me at the bottom of the lift to his apartment and things kicked off from there as soon as I stepped into the lift with him, luckily it was summer and I was wearing no underwear. He pushed me against the lift wall and started fingering me while the lift went up to his apartment level, which only lasted briefly as we quickly reached his apartment, he then quickly showed me around before leading me towards his bedroom. We walked in and after I placed my bag down we started heavily making out while he switched between kissing my neck and roughly removing my clothes, then pushed me onto his bed and pulled my legs towards the edge of the bed and started giving me oral while he kneeled on the ground, it was the first time a guy had given me oral and was incredibly hot between him moaning really getting into licking my pussy quite vigorously and kissing me straight after so I could taste what he had, which was surprisingly hot to be tasting my own cum for the first time.
After this he lay on the bed and I gave him a handjob while making out him while he moaned in my ear which was quite hot and starting to make me more wet, we then had sex and I orgasmed hugely as he pushed my legs over my head, which was surprising to discover how flexible I was and how great his huge dick felt in that position.
We also had anal that morning, which was my first time for that too and I discovered I liked him putting his finger in my ass and licking around my ass to get ready for anal, which was incredibly hot to have while I was half on his bed having my hair yanked right back, which I could see in his huge mirror covering one of his walls, and was incredibly hot to see myself fucked from behind while he moaned and said how great I felt while I screamed incredibly loud. He then pulled out of me slowly and came all over my ass, which was a great start to our monthly hook-ups.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met up a few more times that happened to always be monthly, and had great rough sex. There were always great experimental times, well for me, having anal sex in the shower, fucking everywhere and in all kinds of positions around a hotel room, which also involved handcuffs during anal and him coming on my boobs, which was really hot. We only message occasionally basically to meet up when the other is free.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a couple of friends, they were fine about it just had questions as a few are new to casual sex now and were curious about some of the sexual details.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having great rough sex with new positions, especially anal and him getting amazing oral which made me incredibly wet.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Probably not being the safest idea meeting a tinder stranger at their place, which I definitely learnt to be alot safer after even though I had been fine.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It definitely changed my views on casual sex, as I had always been more safer like and in a relationship so I had always judged friends abit when they had so it’s definitely made me more open to the idea and more comfortable with casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m definitely alot more comfortable and accepting towards casual sex, and hopefully society can become more open towards it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Seems very cool.

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