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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Accountant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Happily married and enjoying sex outside of the marriage
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Anal On My Way Home

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met T about 6 years ago online. We started chatting which lea to sex talk which led me to send pictures of my booty. He is an attractive, tall and fit policeman. He’s 29 now and I’m almost 41. He was quite young when we first met and it’s a huge turn on for me. We have phonesex, video chat and send sexy pics back and forth. He’s obsessed with my ass and anal sex. Over the years we’ve met about 8 times, as he lives quite far away and we never really want to make the effort to travel and see each other.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This time, I had work close to his house. I asked him in the morning if I could come by later. He said yes. So very spontaneous which hardly happens for us. I was horny from the moment I was on my way to see him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I came in. He straight away started kissing me in the corridor. I stripped for him. He started licking my ass and my pussy. I was so wet already. I was sensible enough to get the condoms out because I knew he would never bring it up. He put one on and started fucking me doggy style. We moved to the couch. Legs in his neck. He fucks me good, doesn’t have a big dick but okay. He’s rough with me which I like; choking, pulling hair, slapping me. I went on top and started riding him. He put his fingers in my mouth which I found so very sexy and made me so horny. I have never had that. I was still on top, grinding and he was sucking my nipples good. I was talking dirty in his ear, telling him that he was fucking me so well and asking him if he was going to fuck my ass later; meantime he was pushing my tits in his mouth and with him being rough with me, I came very hard. He then turned me around and fucked me in the ass, which he loves. It was very good but I couldn’t come again. I then started sucking him without a condom, deep throating him. He came in my mouth and on my face.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt happy, fun that our spontaneous plan worked. My expectations for T are low as he has disappointed me often. So anything I get from him is good. He made me a drink. I showered and we lay on the couch hugging and kissing and chatting. He’s been very busy at work these weeks so I haven’t spoken to him much. But I’ve known him for 6 years. I know he’ll always come back for my ass.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Two friends know of T. They find it strange since we see each other so little. But they’re happy when I see him.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’m married and cheating on my wonderful husband with T. Basically T is nothing but a fuckboy who misbehaves a lot of times but I still let him into my life.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I like to have fun. Hopefully without hurting others or being hurt.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

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