Location: Buenos Aires
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Unaffiliated
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 or 3 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Unlabeled
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him in December because a friend in common invited me over to his house. Since then I’ve always been attracted to him but didn’t believe anything would happen between us until he asked me out a couple of weeks after that. I didn’t know him too much even though I liked him. We hooked up for the first time on Christmas Eve when we arranged to meet up after a party, ever since we’ve kept seeing each other (up to date).
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to his place as I normally do to hook up and then sleep over. At that point both sides assumed what was going to happen so there was no planning involved or instigating. We just did what we had to do.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to his bedroom and started making out until things got touchy-feely. We both did oral on each other like most times and had vaginal sex with the usual spanking and choking. He’s a good lover, very considerate, reads my expressions really well, knows when to be rough and when to be gentle so it was amazing and I’m pretty sure I had an orgasm a couple of times. Right before he reached his orgasm I kneeled down on the floor to give him head again, he came into the back of my mouth causing me to gag and semen starting coming out of my nose. It was very funny, we both laughed a lot and he took pictures of the mess we made. After that we cleaned up and I jumped in the shower.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? At that time we used a condom although he took it off to ejaculate into my mouth. We discussed getting tested for STIs and I started taking birth control pills just in case not long after that even though we continued using condoms. Once I tested negative we stopped using them altogether. The condoms had broken or slipped off a few times before I got tested so we assumed the results applied to the both of us.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was probably really horny and since we regularly hooked up we did once again.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I can’t recall but if so we might have both smoked a little pot but not much.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept seeing each other a couple of times a week for a few months. I felt good, I really have a good time with him since I trust him so much, I feel comfortable around him. I hope we can continue whatever we have because I really care for him and it’s fun but also not demanding.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my closest friends one night when we were drunk and started sharing funny sex stories. We all laughed together about the incident.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual on both sides. I don’t think I wanted to experience that because it feels like water coming out your nose only it isn’t… but it wasn’t bad, a little uncomfortable (physically). It’s not something I would wish for to happen again, so whenever he wants to we make sure I know beforehand when he’s going to cum so I don’t choke.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, not at all. We both laughed a lot together and that made it positive and not a regretful experience.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the sex altogether and laughing afterwards. The worst was kind of choking on his cum though in reality it wasn’t horrifying or anything, just a little uncomfortable. No, it wasn’t life changing but it’s a funny story to tell. If anything it made us a little closer by having something funny to remember.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I hope he doesn’t read this but if he does then hola!
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