Current location: England
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short Fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? T was a friend from high school who I hadn’t seen for a couple of years after graduation. He got in touch with me and asked if I’d like to take a trip with him around India. As I was bored and between jobs at that point, I agreed. We’d been good friends in school (and perhaps a little flirty) and hadn’t lost that fondness for each other over the years. I definitely did not expect anything to happen between us on the trip.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hooked up for the first time in a small town we were visiting. We’d been wandering around the entire day and finally wound up at a little bar after closing time. We met a couple of other tourists – two Germans and an Australian – drank some alcohol and smoke a couple of joints. It was pretty strong green. We walked back to the bed and breakfast we were staying at stoned and collapsed on the bed with the T.V. on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He started to massage my shoulders and subtly removed my spaghetti straps as he moved his hands down my back. This felt so good that I was moaning in response without realizing I was doing so. He acted on this and flipped me over, holding my arms down and kissing my neck. He tried to kiss me on my lips, but I was still not entirely comfortable about this as it would mean that our friendship would change, so I avoided that.
He continued kissing my neck, removed my top, jeans and my underwear and his as well. I remember him running his tongue in a straight line from the nape of my neck down between my breasts onto my stomach, over my pussy and down to my clit. He then proceeded to give me the best oral I’ve ever had. His tongue was so warm as he moved it around and over slowly and then he started sucking hard and harder. Fuck me. It was so good. I was writhing in pleasure and trying to arch away from him but he wouldnt let go until I had to push him away.
Then I went down on him. I like taking my time so I ran my tongue over and around his balls, down his dick, and around the bottom of his head and back up, until it was wet in my hand and then sucking on his balls while I gave him a hand job, and then moved backed to sucking on his dick until he came.
We continued to kiss, lick and suck until the next morning.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not have an orgasm but yeah, he had a bunch.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t have vaginal or anal sex, and had been discussing our sexual histories during our trip.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It .. just happened.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Quite a lot of alcohol and a couple of joints.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well, the first hookup happened pretty early on in the trip. I woke up the next day and it was a bit awkward between us, but we then hooked up the next night as well, and then for the rest of the trip – still only oral because I just felt that vaginal sex would ruin the friendship. But we became very comfortable around each other quite quickly, and by the end of the trip, we’d definitely formed an attachment, which has lasted till today, hah, although I think that in part, this is because I gave him the worst blue balls. I’ve always felt like there is unfinished business between us (he’s in a different country now) but I’m not sure how he feels about me.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of friends. They were non-judgmental about it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about the hookup was the oral. His tongue is yet to be surpassed, heh. The worst thing I suppose is wondering whether I should have let him fuck me. The hookup didn’t change me, but it definitely made him see me in a new way.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’m quite addicted to this site – oh and especially intrigued by one contributor who went out and got laid solely to write about his experience here, because I’d been thinking about doing the same thing and then read his story, heh.
It’s interesting that so many people, despite feeling that their experiences were good ones, still categorized their stories as ‘a little negative’. I think it’s deeply revealing about how we’re *still* conditioned to think about sex.
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