What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 Month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Anne was my manager at my previous company, she is an attractive Asian woman about a couple of years younger than me. I always found her attractive, nice slim body, classic Asian beauty face, her choice of perfume often gave me boners. Although she was my manager by name, she wasn’t exactly my superior as I only join her team to help deliver her project, we were more like peers. Anyway I was sensible enough to wait till we no longer worked together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had always got along well at work, after a while we started interacting socially ie. talk about personal life, trade office gossips etc. Anne is also married, for some weird reason I felt she and her husband not having nearly enough sex, she often looked sexually pent up when she arrived at work in the morning. Although I felt she might be attracted to me, i wasn’t about to make a move while still working with her.
A couple of weeks after I finished working with Anne, I sent her a text msg asking whether she’d like to meet up for lunch. The lunch went really well, we really clicked and talked about a lot of things we couldn’t openly talk about while working together, although nothing sexually we both felt we’d like to catch up again soon.
Fast forward a few weeks, after a number of to and fros we finally found a mutually acceptable time to meet for drinks and dinner on a Friday night. The evening went really well, we clearly liked each other’s company. Afterwards I offered to walk her to the train station. It’s a warm night, we walked along the river – romantic setting. I thought to myself if I was going to make a move, this gotta be it. So I purposely brushed my hand against hers, she didn’t seem to protest. I went further by attempting to touch her hand, against no protest. I decided to hold her hand, again she liked it. After a few minutes of walking, I stopped and pulled her towards me tried to kiss her. She flinched a little initially but went with it. After a few minutes of making out, I asked whether she could stay for a little longer. She said yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We continued to make out, I put my hand up her skirt touched her silky panties and felt the heat from her pussy. I went further by putting a finger inside her panties and felt a pussy, it was WET. She stopped me and said “not here.” So I said let’s get a room, she nodded. We checked into a hotel nearby, as soon as we got into the room we started kissing passionately and stripping off clothes.
While hairy she has a nice tight pussy, and I loved her pussy smell. The sex was rather standard, I ate her out till she orgasmed. She tried to give me a blowjob but she wasn’t good at it. She rode me on top, I fucked her from side way and missionary and finally we both came.
Afterwards we did some small talk and check out the hotel.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept things as normal like nothing had happened. I wanted to hookup with her again but not sure how to proceed.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, I’m a married man.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I get to fuck Anne, which I have always wanted to.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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