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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Madison
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bicurious, fluid
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10-15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Anonymous Online Hookup With Another Married Soul

How long ago did this hookup happen? Today

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a married mother of four, around my age, who lives near me. Asian, about 5’8″ with brown hair and beautiful big tits. I met her on an app and we clicked right away. I do this often. I have a few drinks and cruise apps like Grindr or Whisper to see if I can meet people to sext. Up until this point it has been purely an online thing.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We sexted and exchanged pictures a couple of times and it was really hot. We were clearly compatible, and both sexually unsatisfied in our marriages. I liked the fact that she was also committed, we bonded over our need for multiple partners. That’s a big turn on for me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After a night of hot sexting, I woke up hard the next morning. I had the day off, my wife was at work. I texted her again to let her know I was still turned on thinking about the night before. She said she felt the same, and hinted that her husband had the kids at his mom’s house for the day. On a whim, I asked her if she wanted to come over to fuck for real. She agreed, and said she was on her way!

Before she arrived I was so nervous. I had often gone behind my wife’s back to have cyber sex or even sometimes cam sex with people (women and men), but had never once actually cheated. When she arrived (I still don’t know her name), there was no talking. We passionately made out briefly, and once we got to the spare bedroom (made sure not to use the bed my wife and I share), I immediately had her on all fours, pulled down her pants, and began to furiously lick her pussy and ass hole. She moaned out loudly, reaching back to play with her clit as I tongue fucked her. After this, we slid into a 69 position for a few minutes (her on top) before I repositioned myself behind her, ready to fuck. I paused for a second before I put it in, making sure I was really ready to fuck another woman. She begged me to fuck her, and without thinking I went for it.

Her pussy felt amazing, and the sex was great. We fucked in doggy for about 10 minutes, my hands were rough… slapping her ass, grabbing her hips, scratching her back and pulling her hair. It was the perfect animalistic, anonymous sex that I’ve been craving for years. I really like dirty talk, and I got off when she commanded me to “fuck her married cunt with my thick cock.” I pulled out and came on her back. She wiped it off, and she was on her way.

Not sure when the next time we talk will be.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’m still thinking about it, and still a little turned on as it just happened a couple of hours ago. I hope it was just a one time thing. I feel an immense amount of guilt. Not only do I love my wife, she’s my best friend. I can’t live without her and just don’t know how to crush these urges that I’ve been getting. I know I need to stop sexting behind her back, and I certainly can’t fuck someone else again. Hopefully this time I got it out of my system.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? There’s no one to tell.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? The guilt I feel about my wife and marriage.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to fuck someone else about 6 years of being with one woman. I liked that I felt comfortable with this woman and that her situation is similar to mine.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Guilt.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. I love coming here and reading other people’s stories. I’m glad I finally got to write my own.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!