by Lisa

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Another tinder fuck

How long ago did this hookup happen? Less than 5 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jay and I had met through Tinder, how lame. We chatted for a very short time and agreed to meet that night for drinks. It was a Saturday night, I was new in town and didn’t know anybody. I wasn’t too impressed when I met him. He was only a bit taller than me, was blonde (I am not into blonde guys), started losing his hair and had a bit of a beard. As we kept drinking, him showing me around various bars, I started to like him. He was actually quite nice.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was 12:30, we were both tired and quite drunk and another beer seemed out of the question. We had to take the same tram home but it wasn’t going to be there for another 10 minutes. He kissed me which I had been waiting for for a while (it’s hard for me to initiate it). We went to his place since his bed was bigger!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out in his bed, taking off our clothes. He felt really good. His dick was huuuuge. There was one thing I had been craving for a while: being fucked hard. And he did do just that. His favorite position is doggy style and he is so very good at it. He loves looking at me from behind, he touches my ass like he really enjoys it, it’s the hottest thing in the world. He can hold it in for a very long time. He did it in three rounds, me needing breaks in between since he was fucking me so very hard. It felt so good, something I had been craving. Eventually I sucked him off. I love giving blow jobs. Dick is just too good. I feel like you can only be good at blow jobs if you love dick. He got really into it, gave me hints on what he likes. Told me I gave him the best blow job ever. He came all over my face, accidentally. I was rather drunk during the whole act, so don’t remember any details.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I spent the night. I wasn’t sure what to think about it. It felt good, but we met through tinder and had sex on our first date. Wasn’t exactly expecting a call from him. A few days later he invited me back to his place and we kept on hooking up for a while. Sex was still the same as the first time, a good fuck that made me feel better about myself. He seemed to really like me and wanted to do couple-y stuff but I would tell him I didn’t have time. I moved away since I only came to the city for an internship. I didn’t get to say a proper good bye which still makes me sad.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature), Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told only my best friend about it, neutral reaction I would say.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The way he fucked me and treated my body. Him going crazy about my blow jobs.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The smell in his apartment: He lived with two other guys and their washing machine was broken. They wouldn’t take the towels to the washing salon.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I know what factors matter the most when having a fuck buddy. I got better at blow jobs.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

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