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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Missouri
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Military
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 300+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Another Video Arcade Story

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a white guy in his 50’s. He was a little chubby, married, seemed like a very under-sexed married guy just looking for a blow job.

We met at a video arcade.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I walked to a booth and tried the door. It wasn’t locked so I walked in and he was sitting in a chair stroking his cock. He was maybe 5-6”. I stood next to him and started rubbing myself. I then asked if he’d like a blowjob and he said yes. He stood up and had me sit down in the chair. I took him into my mouth and starting blowing him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I sucked him for maybe 5 minutes before he said he was about to come. I told him to come in my mouth, but he wound up pulling out and shooting all over me. I have never seen more come. I had come on my shirt, my pants, and my shoes (all which were black or grey).

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was a little frustrated but also thought it was incredibly hot because I had to walk out of there knowing I was wearing this man’s come.

The next day I only thought about how hot it was. I wished I had gotten information from him so we could do it again.

I don’t know him today and think of him only occasionally.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was fun; having him come on my clothes was really hot.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think if you’re into it, do it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a great project!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!