What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? in a job
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Lets call her L. She was a friend of my girlfriend at that time. In a country like India, its a taboo to have sex before marriage and my girlfriend always insisted on oral sex only. I was okay with it as that is how relationships are in India.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was my first job and I was staying in a apartment all by my self. L used to hang out with us a lot (me, my GF and few other friends). L came across as a confident young woman as she had spent most of her schooling and college away from home in a hostel. She was lean and had a hot body. I could always sense a sexual tension between L and I but it never transpired into anything else. I wanted to be faithful, but with just oral with my GF, I was desperate to have sex which my GF wanted to hold on to.
On one occasion, when we were watching a movie, I could see L staring at me in a sexual way. I smiled and she smiled back, her face was like come fuck me, but that wasn’t enough to make a move. The next weekend, my GF was out of town and I thought of using this opportunity to make a move. I sent her a text to go out for dinner (citing that my GF was away and i was kind of bored all by myself) and she responded. We met at a fancy restaurant and had a good time. We spoke about a lot of things and felt connected to each other but nothing came up to instigate sex. It was monsoon season and on my way back it started raining (just what I needed). We were on a bike and I kind of rushed back to my place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While at my place, we were completely soaked and I offered her a towel. She went into the room to change while I tried fixing my self. 10 minutes and I started wondering what was taking her so long. I tried peeking and saw her all naked lying on the bed touching herself. She was waiting for me and she gestured with her hand for me to come inside. I joined her on the bed and we started making out while I was still dressed. She was an animal kissing me all over, biting and pressing her tits hard when I sucked. I was on the verge of cumming while making out. All this while, she started undressing me, I know this sounds weird but I found this extremely hot. She asked me to stand on the edge of the bed and then went on to give me head. Although i had oral sex before and was keen to have sex, she made me realize how amazing a blowjob can be. She was on my dick like her life depended on it. Lots of tongue and licking and in no time I came with her swallowing every drop. I was gonna pass out when she continued sucking the tip of my penis after I came, a feeling I had not experienced before. It was my turn next and I tried my best to match her and return the favor. I ate her out and she seemed to be enjoying it. A few minutes later she came pretty hard and squirt all over my face. WOW, I was taken aback and turned on at the same time. She boosted my male ego by saying this was the best lick she ever had.
She asked me if I had condoms and I did not. I felt like an idiot considering I was planning this. I offered to go out and buy, but I guess she was too horny. She said she was clean and asked me if I was. I wasn’t too experienced on this and told her I only had oral with my GF. This was enough for her and she pulled me and started kissing. I was way too nervous and she really guided me in there. The feeling was out of this world, her pussy felt amazing! We started missionary and then tried a lot of positions. As I came earlier, I was able to last a bit. We tried doggy, her on top with me licking her tits, spooning. Every stroke and i could feel a sensation run down my spine. She would stop and say I wanna to taste my pussy and then go on to lick my penis. I would return the favor before continuing with the sex. We switched back to missionary and I told her I was close. She asked me to come inside her as we were bare and she planned on a pill anyways. This was enough for me to come hard inside her, we both came together and I kind of passed out in her arms. I pulled out and could see a huge amount of sperm flowing out. This was turning out to be a dream come true. All I thought was sex, but this women was making me experience things I never dreamed of.
All this was not enough and she said she’ll be back. She went to the kitchen and came back with some oil and started lubing her ass. I wasn’t sure what was going on (Ya! I was that naive) and she started giving me head to get me hard and whispered that she wanted to do anal. She was pretty tight down there but managed to get her finger in. I tried a lot but was not able to enter, but eventually I did. It felt very tight and I was still coming to senses. She was moaning loudly and that was only making me more horny. Few minutes and I was about to come again. Not sure if I can come inside, I pulled out and came all over her ass.
I couldn’t believe what just happened, but embraced her and gave her a deep kiss. We collapsed in each other’s arm and took a short nap. An hour later she said she would want to go back as her roomies would start getting worried and I dropped her back home. While returning I had a big smile on my face and thanks to L for taking me to the areas unknown.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I came back and hit the bed. Woke up next day and started googling to find out if unprotected sex was fine. Of course the results scared the shit out of me and I was extremely worried. We both discussed about this and decided to get ourselves tested which came out clean. We were extremely hygienic the whole time and her ass never seemed dirty. Getting ourselves tested together only bonded us a bit more.
Coming to the cheating part here, I did not feel any guilt whatsoever. I started feeling for L the next day onwards, but she said no commitments. We continued hanging out and bonding and more raunchy sex. I was still with my GF, but the oral only got more monotonous and boring.
There is another exciting part of my time with L, which I would bring up in another story.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history, Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. In my society, everyone would have started thinking of her as a slut which she was not. Over the course of our time together, I realized she was this forward woman who did not sleep around with everyone. She explored her sexuality and thought me the same. I couldn’t thank her enough ever!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Learning the areas unknown. She taught me things I could have never imagined/tried my entire life.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? None
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Of course. Especially in the country that I live in, it is a taboo. Thanks to this I was very open to casual sex and the fact that it is fine for a person to explore his or her sexuality with a trusted partner.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Hats off to Dr Zhana and the team, for this concept. I never wanted my experience to be posted on a porn site and this site gave me an opportunity to bring this episode up with the like minded folks.
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